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Respectful Parenting: Janet Lansbury Unruffled

Problems with Punishments (Described by a Parent Who Used Them) with Michelle Kenney

Aug 22, 2023
Michelle Kenney, a former teacher turned mom, shares her journey from using punishments to gentle parenting. They discuss the impact of punishments on their children's behavior and how it created a rift in their relationship. The podcast explores the transformative power of empathetic listening and the importance of allowing children to have their feelings. The hosts express gratitude for the alternative parenting approach and emphasize the value of authenticity.
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Quick takeaways

  • Punishments and rewards can have negative effects on children's behavior and can drive a wedge between them and their parents.
  • Acknowledging and addressing the underlying feelings and experiences behind children's actions is crucial for building connected relationships and understanding their behavior.

Deep dives

The Importance of Understanding the 'Why' Behind Parenting Methods

Michelle Kenny, author of 'Unpunished,' shares her experience transitioning from punitive methods to a more connected approach in parenting. She discusses the tipping point that made her realize the ineffectiveness of punishments and rewards and the negative effects they had on her children's behavior. Michelle emphasizes the importance of understanding the reasons behind our children's actions and addressing their underlying feelings.

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