This podcast discusses the importance of allowing our kids to struggle and face challenges. It explores the idea that as parents, we need to let our kids experience adversity in order for them to develop resilience and strength. The episode draws examples from ancient philosophy and tells stories of Spartan fathers and Cato's parents to illustrate this concept.
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Letting our kids struggle is a sign of love and helps them build resilience and self-admiration.
Parents should focus on preparing their children for a challenging world by manufacturing trials and showing them what they are capable of.
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Letting Kids Struggle: A Sign of Love
As parents, we often want to protect our children from struggles and hardships. However, the podcast argues that letting our kids struggle is actually a sign of love. The essay by Seneca on Providence explores the idea that enduring adversity and hardship is what makes people admirable. Good parents take on the role of trainers, creating trials and challenges for their children to face. This is similar to how teachers and coaches push their most promising students. By allowing our kids to struggle, we can help them build resilience, strength, and self-admiration.
Preparing Kids for a Challenging World
It is important for parents to recognize that the world is not easy, and we cannot make it easy for our children. Instead, we should focus on preparing them for a challenging world. The podcast gives the example of Theodore Roosevelt, who would lead his family on walks and guide them over obstacles. This fun and engaging experience taught his children how to toughen themselves up, solve problems, and not get discouraged when things are hard. By manufacturing trials and showing our kids what they are capable of, we can make them resilient, strong, and worthy of admiration.
"We love our kids, that’s why we hate to see them struggle. But maybe that’s precisely the wrong way to think about it? Because we love our kids, we have to let them struggle. We need them to struggle."
Ryan discusses why it's so important to let our kids experience challenges on today's Daily Dad Podcast.
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