The Rich Roll Podcast

Midlife is a Chrysalis, Not A Crisis—Chip Conley On Why Life Gets Better With Age

Jan 11, 2024

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Chip Conley, founder of the Modern Elder Academy, discusses reframing midlife as a transformative stage, the concept of age fluidity, the age curve of happiness, and the importance of regenerative communities. They also explore Chip's personal journey with cancer, the role of being a Modern Elder, the concept of age apartheid, and the value of generational dinners.

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Midlife is a time to find purpose and give back to others, leading to joy and fulfillment.

Midlife offers the opportunity to redefine oneself and embrace new possibilities, creating a meaningful and fulfilling life.

Building strong connections and fostering community is essential to well-being, contributing to a longer, happier life.

Midlife allows us to reevaluate our personal stories and consciously shape our own hero's journey.

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Importance of Finding Purpose and Giving Back

As we age, it is important to find purpose and give back to others. This can be achieved through serving others, mentoring, and making a positive impact in people's lives. By shifting our focus from personal achievements to how we can contribute to the greater good, we can experience a deep sense of joy and fulfillment.

Life stages: Consuming, crystallizing, pollinating

01:11

Finding Meaning and Impact in Midlife

04:04

Navigating the Afternoon of Life

01:47

Becoming a Beginner Again, Use It or Lose It; Arther Brooks

01:20

Introduction

3min

Reframing Aging and Health Journey

3min

Reflections on Aging and Priorities

18min

Feelings of Resignation and the Spinning Plate Phenomenon

10min

The Importance of Reevaluating Purpose

23min

Embracing Transformation and Growth in Midlife

10min

Midlife Transformation and Growth Mindset

4min

The Positive Aspects of Aging and Enhanced Cognitive Abilities

23min

Navigating Transitions and Owning Wisdom

7min

10.

Regeneration and Climate Change

20min

11.

Tuition, Birthday Party, and Sponsor Ad

3min

What if we framed midlife not as a crisis but as a transformative chrysalis—a liminal period where profound awakenings unfold?

What if we saw it as an opportunity to shed old layers, unfurl our wings, and share the pollen of our wisdom with the world?

Guiding us from pupa to butterfly, we have the Monarch himself, Chip Conley.

Returning to the show for the second time (Chip first appeared on episode 681), Chip founded the Modern Elder Academy, the pioneering midlife wisdom school dedicated to transforming aging. He is also a New York Times bestselling author. In his latest book, Learning to Love Midlife: 12 Reasons Why Life Gets Better with Age, Chip retools conventional notions of life in our 40s, 50s, and 60s. Drawing from the latest social science research, moving anecdotes, and enduring wisdom, he unveils 12 compelling reasons why life becomes more prosperous and fulfilling as we age.

Today’s conversation revolves around how we conceptualize and define life stages, the concept of Age Fluidity, the age curve of happiness, and the importance of cultivating regenerative communities. We also explore Chip’s personal journey with cancer, the distinction between showing up and showing off, the role of being a conduit for ideas and collaboration, the essence of being a Modern Elder, the concept of age apartheid, and the value of generational dinners.

For individuals seeking to infuse greater purpose and satisfaction into their professional journey, especially those who have dedicated a significant portion of their career to a specific path and are now pondering fresh opportunities, this conversation is a must-listen.

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