Conscious Kink with Ms. Elle X Rebuilding a Broken Dynamic
Nov 13, 2022
The hosts dive into the art of rebuilding trust in damaged relationships, discussing the shift from adversarial dynamics to nurturing friendship. They highlight the significance of emotional connections and mutual respect, introducing innovative concepts like 'love maps.' The episode emphasizes enhancing bonds through sensory experiences and the importance of presence. Listeners get practical advice on love languages and playful communication, all aimed at deepening intimacy while promoting joy and connection.
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Rebuild Friendship Before Dynamics
- Prioritize rebuilding friendship first instead of trying to restore the dominant-submissive dynamic.
- Enjoy each other's company through laughter, play, and lighthearted connection before addressing heavy issues.
Unity vs Antagonism in Relationships
- Being united and viewing yourselves as a team against the problem, not each other, is crucial.
- Antagonism toward your partner signals fatal harm to the relationship's survival.
Respect Boundaries During Conflict
- Stop trying to control each other's behavior and respect boundaries around emotional readiness.
- Pause tense conversations when triggers arise and resume only when both partners feel calm.
