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Sam Jolman on The Sex Talk You Never Got

Aug 28, 2024
Sam Jolman, a trauma therapist with over two decades in sexual trauma recovery, shares insights from his extensive experience. He discusses the significance of nurturing dialogues about sexuality, contrasting emotional intimacy with mere physical lust. Jolman emphasizes understanding sexuality through desire rather than mere drive. He explores human dignity in relationships, advocating for holistic conversations that address both emotional and physical aspects. His personal anecdotes and compassionate approach provide valuable resources for parents and individuals navigating these critical discussions.
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  • Many men view their sexuality through a narrow lens, lacking safe spaces for deeper conversations about sexual identity and formation.
  • Addressing generational neglect in sex education requires parents to process their own feelings about sexuality for healthier discussions with their children.

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The Need for an Expanded Conversation on Male Sexuality

Many men often view their sexuality through a narrow lens, focusing solely on sin and behavior, such as lust or abstinence. This limited perspective neglects a more profound understanding of male sexuality and the importance of meaningful conversations about sexual formation. Men frequently lack safe spaces for sharing their struggles, contributing to the idea that masculinity is over-sexualized yet under-sexually nurtured. Addressing this gap can involve opening discussions that go beyond surface-level reactions to sexuality, leading to a more mature understanding and healthier expressions of sexual identity.

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