Life Kit Why you should connect with your kid, not correct them
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Jul 8, 2024 
Becky Kennedy, a clinical psychologist and author of "Good Inside," shares her insights on parenting with a focus on connection rather than correction. She highlights the importance of understanding emotions and building relationships with children before addressing their behavior. Kennedy discusses how childhood experiences shape parental triggers and advises on developing self-trust in kids to foster genuine confidence. By prioritizing connection, she encourages parents to create a nurturing environment that supports growth and resilience.
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Good Inside
- "Good inside" means believing all people are inherently good.
- Separate a person's identity from their behavior, especially with children.
Connect First
- Prioritize connection over immediate punishment when your child misbehaves.
- Address the misbehavior while acknowledging your child's struggles and offering support.
Shame Detection and Response
- Recognize shame in children by their frozen, unresponsive state, not disrespect.
- Respond with calming presence and avoid escalating the situation with further reprimands.
