The Daily Dad Are You Good At Hearing?
Oct 10, 2023
The discussion begins with a poignant excerpt from a musician's memoir about the struggles of being heard. It explores the fundamental importance of validating children's emotions and how neglecting to do so can lead to feelings of isolation. The episode highlights the damaging effects of gaslighting from caregivers and underscores the necessity of active listening. Ultimately, it encourages parents to create a nurturing atmosphere where children's feelings are recognized and respected.
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Jollett's Mother
- Mikel Jollett describes his mother's inability to truly hear her children's needs in his memoir Hollywood Park.
- She dismissed their hunger and sadness, claiming they weren't actually feeling those things.
Impact of Narcissism
- Jollett's mother's actions demonstrate the impact of narcissism and emotional immaturity on children.
- Her dismissal of their feelings stemmed from an inability to handle what she didn't want to hear.
Validate Children's Feelings
- Acknowledge your children's feelings by truly listening and reflecting their words back.
- Avoid minimizing, dismissing, or prematurely offering reassurance before they feel heard and understood.
