Death on the Daily Grief as a creative force: embracing death through beauty, laughter & art
I am joined today by the hilarious and brilliantly creative sister duo that are Katy and Lindsey Vigurs, co-founders of Dead Good. We explore the intersection of creativity, joy, meaning making and death.
Katy and Lindsey share their personal experiences with death & grief. Including anticipatory grief in their Dad’s final year as they listened to their Dad and came up with creative responses as a family - making it his best year. We also discuss the importance of community, conversation about death, and how creative rituals can help us to navigate our own mortality and talk about things that are taboo.
Emphasising the need for open discussions about death, the role of humour, playfulness and joy in navigating death & grief, whilst not shying away from the pain of grief, and the importance of planning for the inevitable.
Through their work, the Dead Good sisters aim to reawaken a connection with death and make the topic more accessible and less taboo. With practical guidance to help you to get important things in place like a will.
Key takeaways
- Creativity can help us to connect with death and grief.
- Community support is vital in navigating grief.
- Humour and playfulness can coexist with grief.
- Creative rituals can make memories and meaning at the end of life for the person and their family.
- Anticipatory grief can be supported through creative expression.
- Conversations about death should be normalised.
- Making wills and legal preparations is essential.
- Coming together for parties to talk about death plans can be fun and empowering.
- Death conversations fosters connection and breaks fear and taboo.
- Light and playful conversation can ease the fear of mortality.
- Death education can empower individuals to engage with their mortality.
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The theme music for Death on the Daily is Set Free by Katie Gray, which is used with artist's permission.
You can connect with Katie and her music and work here https://www.katiegray.com.
This podcast is edited by David Strutt, who you can contact here for any editing needs: davidstrutt2@gmail.com
Chapters
00:00: Embracing Death: A Creative Perspective
02:45: Personal Journeys Through Grief
05:23: The Importance of Community in Death Conversations
08:15: Creative Rituals and Memory Making
11:08: Navigating Anticipatory Grief
13:46: The Role of Humor and Playfulness in Grief
16:24: Reawakening Our Connection with Death
19:06: Starting Conversations About Mortality
21:53: Creative Approaches to Death Education
24:49: The Power of Connection in Grief
27:24: Making Death Planning Accessible
30:21: The Importance of Wills and Legal Preparations
32:55: Transformative Experiences in Death Work
35:49: Visibility and Community Engagement in Death Conversations
38:34: Finding Joy in the Conversation About Death