The Next Right Thing Why Your Pro/Con List Isn’t Working (Best of)
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Jul 29, 2025 Explore the limitations of pro/con lists in decision-making, illustrated amusingly with a nod to 'Gilmore Girls.' Discover a more holistic approach called the 'life energy list' that focuses on personal values instead of simplistic comparisons. Dive into the importance of recognizing your genuine desires and the distinction between confession and demand. Emphasizing collaboration, this insightful conversation promotes self-awareness and encourages authentic living through energizing choices.
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Rory's College Decision Lists
- Rory Gilmore made three separate pro/con lists for her college choices in a Gilmore Girls episode.
- She vowed to follow her list's decision no matter what, illustrating the common reliance on this tool.
Limitations of Pro/Con Lists
- Pro/con lists appear objective and productive but are just a preliminary decision tool.
- They fail to capture nuance and may overlook deep knowing that isn't easily listed.
Unequal Weight in Lists
- Pro/con lists treat all items as equal, but some pros or cons outweigh others significantly.
- A single meaningful pro can surpass numerous lesser cons in influence.
