Optimal Relationships Daily - Dating, Marriage and Parenting 2794: What Is the Definition of Monogamy by Evan Marc Katz on Modern Relationships
Nov 10, 2025
Explore the intricate dynamics of modern relationships as the host unpacks the nuances of monogamy. Discover how unspoken expectations can derail budding connections. A personal story highlights the importance of establishing clear commitments. Delve into the reality that attraction doesn't automatically mean exclusivity. The podcast emphasizes that effective communication about boundaries and needs is crucial for relationship success. Tune in for insights that challenge conventional wisdom and promote healthier dating practices.
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Dating Two People Before Exclusivity
- Evan Marc Katz describes meeting his future wife while also planning a first date with another woman in San Francisco.
- He slept with both before becoming exclusive and later married the first woman from LA.
Only Assume Monogamy After Commitment
- If you claim monogamy, be in a secure relationship before sleeping together.
- If you're not exclusive, avoid assuming the other person won't see others.
Words Create Relationship Obligations
- Saying a relationship is monogamous then changing behavior is unacceptable.
- But if exclusivity was never agreed, both parties are free to see others.