The Dr. John Delony Show I Don’t Enjoy Sex With My Husband (We Have Issues)
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May 21, 2025 A woman shares her struggles with intimacy in her marriage, exploring communication barriers and emotional disconnection. Discussions unfold around a husband's reluctance to adopt, impacting family dynamics. A mother grapples with setting boundaries for her children while addressing bullying. The conversation emphasizes the critical role of vulnerability, understanding emotional needs, and the importance of open dialogue in relationships. Listeners are encouraged to seek help and nurture connections, with insights on personal fulfillment amid parenting challenges.
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Trauma Shapes Intimacy Responses
- Tess's freezing when Michael initiates sex is likely a trauma response related to her childhood experiences.
- John Delony explains this "lock up" as the body’s survival mechanism to unsafe or threatening situations.
Commit to Counseling Now
- Michael should avoid threatening separation to Tess as a manipulation tactic and seek honest communication.
- They both should commit to marriage counseling urgently to rebuild trust and intimacy.
Hidden Feelings Behind Adoption Debate
- Mike perceives ads about bigger houses or adoption as signs he's 'not enough' for his wife.
- John Delony highlights the emotional weight behind these messages beyond the surface concerns of space and family size.