It’s All Your Fault: High Conflict People Will Smith: High Conflict or Just Upset?
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Apr 14, 2022 The podcast dives into the infamous Oscars slap, questioning whether it was a one-time outburst or indicative of a deeper high conflict pattern. The hosts dissect the events leading up to the incident, exploring Will Smith's and Chris Rock's behaviors and reactions. They analyze Chris Rock's calm responses, highlighting the effectiveness of EAR statements in defusing tension. The discussion also touches on consequences for high conflict behavior and the importance of strategies for change, advocating for coaching over mere punishment.
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One Shocking Act Can Reveal A Pattern
- Public high-conflict acts reveal hidden patterns behind charming surfaces.
- Bill Eddy notes that a single extreme act can indicate a high-conflict pattern worth investigating.
Reported Paparazzi Slap Example
- Megan Hunter found one reported incident where Will slapped a paparazzo who provoked him.
- She cautions media accounts may be incomplete but says even one physical incident is notable.
Adapt Rather Than Probe The Past
- When you spot potential high-conflict behavior, adapt your approach rather than probe the past.
- Avoid emotional confrontations, giving insights, or labeling the person; focus on what you can do now.