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Dear Men: How to Rock Sex, Dating, and Relationships With Women

347: Men’s work isn’t enough. You’ve also got to have this. (ft. Luke Adler)

Feb 7, 2025
58:04

Have you ever felt unworthy, less than, or "deeply ugly and stupid," as my guest this week put it?

The fact is, we need all the support we can get. We need it from our fellow humans, and we need it from something greater.

The word "God" can be very triggering -- for those who experienced religious trauma growing up (which, let's face it, is literally billions of people), it can be a dirty word.

Yet the concept of Life -- aka Divine Intelligence, the Field, Spirit, etc. -- can be extraordinarily transformative when it comes to our everyday lives, and how we experience love itself.

What is your relationship to Life, nature, the interconnected web? Do you feel held by something greater? How does this relate to your experience with sex, dating, and relationships? And what's really behind our patterns and how to we grow beyond them?

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Memorable quotes from this episode:

  • "I thought I was deeply ugly, and stupid."
  • "In the opening, something is allowed to arise through."
  • "Something more important than my pain took centerstage."
  • "You don’t have to ‘do’ the miracle; you just have to be open to the miracle."
  • "Let nature move in between the relationship."
  • "Make way for the mystery."

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