A lot of the time if we’re struggling in our love lives, whether that’s attracting the wrong people, or ending up in bad relationships, we usually blame the other person/people. 

But sometimes it has a lot to do with ourselves. 

In this episode relationship therapist and sexologist Lucille Shackleton chats to Dee about the ways we can unpack our bad dating habits and create the safe and healthy love we deserve. 

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Lucille Shackleton Instagram: @lucille.shackleton 

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