Money For Couples with Ramit Sethi

82. “I’m in $20,000 of debt and she pays for everything. What’s the problem?”

Feb 14, 2023

01:27:21

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Episode guests

Melody

David

Highlights

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Episode notes

Valuing Experiences Over Money

01:20

Financial Stability and Satisfaction

00:52

The Life You Give Me

01:28

How to Get Better With Money in Your Relationship

02:45

Introduction

5min

Melody Doesn't Pay for Everything

2min

You've Never Aligned on Money, but It's Becoming More Relevant

2min

How Do You Feel When You Talk About Money Like That?

4min

How to Get Better With Money in Your Relationship

3min

How Do You Get Rid of Your Debt?

2min

What Does 26% Mean to You?

5min

Money, You Know, It Don't Matter

4min

How Do You Deal With Money?

2min

10.

Are You Both Financially Separate?

3min

11.

What Is the Impact of Covering Grocery Bills?

3min

12.

How Are You in the Best Position You've Ever Been in With Money?

3min

13.

When Does My Debt Get Paid Off?

2min

14.

Is It Enough for You?

2min

15.

How Much Does It Cost to Mow the Lawns?

5min

16.

What I Don't Know Is How Much Money I Make

2min

17.

Are You Good With Money or I Don't Pay Attention to Money in Your Business?

2min

18.

How Much Did You Make on Your Last Job?

2min

19.

Why Can't I Do This?

2min

20.

Is There Someone Playing or Not?

2min

21.

You Can't Say It Out Loud Because I Don't Know if You Can Do It.

2min

22.

What Do You Want With Money?

5min

23.

How Do I Understand Melody's Fears?

2min

24.

I'll Take Every Two Weeks. One Year

2min

25.

Re-Invention Is Always Amazing

2min

26.

Are You Not Legally Married?

2min

27.

Is She Right to Be Worried?

4min

28.

Is It Just Beginning?

2min

29.

What Do You Want to Feel in Your Relationship With Money?

2min

30.

The Relationship Between Money and Relationships

5min

Melody and David are 39 and 45. They manage a picturesque multi-unit property which creates a unique money dynamic. David works as the property manager and has his own side business, but doesn’t pay attention to whether or not he’s making money, leaving Melody with a heavy burden.

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