378 Charles Clay | The Laser Focus Method: How To Create More Than You Consume

Dec 29, 2020

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Choosing a Creator Consciousness allows you to begin to see how our society is so built around a consumer society; we have just been conditioned for this behavior. Whether it's pharmaceutical drugs for any problem that you have in your body; we're conditioned to not listen to our bodies and just take these pills. Drugs, alcohol; you name it. Right now it's everybody with their smartphones; they're so addictive. Every time we give away our attention to these things, these distractions - we're actually giving our power and energy to them because where our attention goes, our energy flows. - Charles Clay

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Wellness Force Radio Episode 378

Men’s Empowerment Coach, Dynamic Speaker, Published Author, Creator of The Laser Focus Method and Founder of M Powered Men’s Group Training and Mastermind, Charles Clay, returns to share why you don't have to struggle to do the inner work, what a soul contract is as well as how to unblock emotional stagnation and come back to energetic sovereignty.

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[1:30] Why You Don't Have To Struggle During The Inner Work

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What has changed for Charles Clay since his last conversation with Josh Trent on Wellness Force.
How to get back to our home base which is inner peace.
The incredible joy and honor that his new daughter, Sofia, has brought into his life.
Common stereotypes of what doing the inner work should look like vs what it actually is for the person doing it.
What his specific awareness process is and how it has shifted since becoming a father.
The deep underlying anxiety that he had for years and how he became adapted to it until he was ready to start letting it go.
Different tactics he tried from self-sabotage to healthy lifestyle choices to let go of his underlying anxiety but it intensified the harder he tried until he welcomed it into his life.
The moment he committed himself to start breaking the relationship he had with external substances and how he was able to do that when he started to improve his emotional intelligence.

[18:00] How To Step Into A Creator Consciousness

How he was able to step into a creator consciousness over focusing on constantly consuming.
Why Josh believes that the 'clean slate' is an illusion and we are imperfect beings on purpose.
Charles' system to set yourself up for wins every time you make these agreements with yourself.
The power of tapping into the energy and emotions you feel when you crave a habit you want to break like sugar.
Why you should always celebrate the little victories even if it's something like 1 day without sugar.
Unpacking why self-doubt is really a Protector archetype and why you should give it a persona/character/voice and welcome it into your day.
Why the inner work process is actually really simple as you dive into where you are feeling stuck, noticing where that shows up in your body, and then becoming curious about it.
The abandonment he felt when his parents divorced and his mother left when he was four years old.
How his repressed anger and the belief that he's not good enough was created when his mother left.
The moment he was gifted with finally being able to sit with his repressed anger and buried emotions.
How physical movement became key for his emotional intelligence practice.
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[35:00] What's In Your Soul Contract?

What a soul contract is and how we've attracted different experiences as a part of it.
The fact that all of our biggest adversities always lead to something great.
How past obstacles can help us maintain a level of calmness, come back home to ourselves, and realize what's actually important.
The opportunity we have to no longer allow fear to take control of our mind and body.
How we can heal as a collective in 2020.
What steps you can take to choose creative consciousness over consumer consciousness.
How we've been conditioned as a society just to consume without questioning.
Why you're actually giving away your power and energy to these distractions like smartphones, alcohol, and even pharmaceuticals when you rely on them.
Unpacking what the motivation trap is and whether or not you are stuck in one.
How to tap into your own flow of inspiration.

[45:00] Unblocking Emotional Stagnation & Cleaning Out Karma

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Exploring stagnant or dense energy and how to unstick yourself from it.
Marci Lock
Why most men around Charles and Josh's age grew up learning to use only two emotions: anger and frustration.
How to take a close look at your coping mechanisms and what is blocking you from creating what you want and tapping into peace.
What new journey of creative consciousness will begin once you've completed the Hero's Journey.
How to clean out your 3D debris as you address it and let it pass so it no longer holds you down.
The power of reversing your karma for future generations.
What karma Josh is working on cleaning out and why he is thankful for the opportunity to work on it.
How to do a deep trust fall and fully know that you are supported.
Uncovering how to bring your awareness to the areas in yourself where you don't feel supported.
Why operating from your heart is a win-win situation for all that are involved.

[51:00] Coming Back To Self With Your Energetic Sovereignty

Exploring why there is so much spiritual bypassing going on in our world today in both the world of wellness and conscious media.
The fact that people with brilliant marketing for their wellness and health services have not actually done the work themselves.
What you should look for when seeking out someone for emotional intelligence and spiritual development.
Who Charles himself looks for when seeking a new coach to help guide him.
Why he always tunes into his intuition and the answers that start showing up to help him with his problem.
What wellness practices he does to sharpen his intuition and awareness skills.
Unpacking what energetic sovereignty is and how to tap into it to fully embody each and every cell, molecule, and atom of your being.
Physical and emotional symptoms that you are giving your life energy away to others.
How to come back to your home base after feeling into other people's energies.
His process for helping other people come back to their own pillar of home base and intuitive medicine to seek out the answers and clarity they need for their next move.
Why you shouldn't ask, 'How can I be peaceful 24/7' but 'How do I become more peaceful,' so that you don't fall into a shame spiral.

[59:00] Creating Heaven On Earth

The moment of truth when he consciously chose the path of self-awareness.
Unpacking his relationship with his father growing up and how life events lead them to bond and create this space for love.
The positive action and focus he and his father took on when they found out that his father had Stage 4 cancer and 2 months to live.
What he realized about himself and his father as he helped him live for another two years.
The process of giving full permission to let go as his father laid on his deathbed.
Why he was called in the past to plant medicine and DMT to experience life outside of the human body.
The Alchemist by Paulo Coelho
What is revealed to us when we witness life and death.
How to let go of intellectualizing life and just being present with it.
Why it's courageous to step up and ask for help right now if you need it because we're not meant to do it alone.
What we can do to create heaven on earth according to Charles: Everything moving forward has to be built on a foundation of what's in the greater good of all living beings including us and Mother Earth; otherwise it will crumble.
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Power Quotes From The Show A Path For The Golden Age

"The whole collective right now with everything that's going on in the world, all this so-called chaos, is all happening for us and you can choose; are you going to keep consuming the fear which is the information that you choose to give your energy and attention? Notice how that feels in your body. I really commend everybody that's showing up and having the courage to dive into some of these emotions and learn what they can from this inner journey right now because that is actually helping heal the collective and amazing things are going to come from this. The whole world right now is on a path for the Golden Age and in order for that transformation to occur, it's going to be uncomfortable at times and we're all experiencing that in our own way." - Charles Clay

Are Mindset Hacks Overrated? "Think about where your attention is going on a daily basis. Are they really going towards what you want to create; this list of ideas and things that you want to bring to the world before you die? How much energy and time are you giving those? How much time are you spending tuning in to allow more of those to flow in? When we come back to that natural state of inner peace, then we're in a receptive mode where we can receive those dreams, inspiration, and amazing ideas from Mother Gaia. Operating from that place is different from having to use a million mindset hacks to motivate yourself to get your butt off the couch and actually do something. Either way will get you there, I just prefer the inspired action approach simply because the quality of energy that I'm creating with is so much more exciting and fun." - Charles Clay Intuition Is Medicine "I always tune into my intuition; it's our own medicine that we are all gifted with. Sometimes it's harder to listen to it than others but with your intuition, you can navigate and notice what comes up on your radar. What you want help with, what you are sick of, and what aspect of your life you're ready to change. Then notice as those answers start showing up like puzzle pieces that start filling in. Next, really tune into the intelligence within your body and what feels intuitively expansive and going to help you on your path or is more constrictive and doesn't feel aligned. Really paying attention to those cues from your body can help steer you to the right guides, coaches, and direction on your journey." - Charles Clay

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About Charles Clay

Charles Clay is a Men’s Empowerment Coach, Dynamic Speaker, Published Author and Founder of M Powered Men’s Group Training and Mastermind.

Years after graduating from WSU with his degree in Kinesiology Charles sustained a devastating back injury while snowboarding, and despite doctors orders to get spinal surgery, he followed his intuition and began his self-healing journey. The immense pain he endured ignited a spiritual awakening and expanded his passion for combining ancient healing practices and eastern philosophy with modern day science and Neurokinetic Therapy to allow for optimal healing and wellness. After a full recovery from his back injury and feeling stronger than ever Charles has dedicated the last decade of his life to helping men transform pain into purpose with his Roadmap to Self-Healing & Self-Mastery.

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He offers powerful and playful practices for moving through fear, releasing resistance, and stress to activate your zone of genius and build the confidence to share your greatest gifts. His path from tragedy to triumph and extensive training in the healing arts has allowed him to offer a series of high level upgrades to unlock human potential.

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