The Psychology of your 20s 85. 'Daddy issues' and dating in your 20s ft. Violet Benson
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Apr 27, 2023 
Violet Benson, host of Almost Adulting and creator of the meme account Daddy Issues, dives into the complexities of dating in your 20s. She discusses how childhood trauma shapes relationship dynamics and the importance of setting healthy boundaries. The conversation also touches on self-love and understanding attachment styles as keys to breaking negative patterns. With humor and personal anecdotes, Violet helps listeners navigate their romantic journeys, encouraging self-awareness and forgiveness.
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Violet's 20s Relationship
- Violet Benson discusses her 8-year on-and-off relationship during her 20s.
- She was obsessed with an emotionally unavailable partner, mirroring her relationship with her father.
Childhood and Relationships
- Childhood experiences significantly shape how we approach intimacy and romantic relationships.
- Trauma from the past influences our present relationships, even if we don't consciously realize it.
Universal Childhood Trauma
- Everyone experiences some form of childhood trauma that shapes them.
- These traumas influence who we are attracted to in relationships.