

When You Feel Overwhelmed, Control the Controllables
12 snips Sep 12, 2025
Dave and Rachel tackle the pressing issues of financial communication in relationships. They offer strategies for couples facing significant debt while navigating high incomes. The conversation blends personal responsibility with the power of choice amid chaotic circumstances. Listeners also learn about prioritizing debts, planning for retirement, and balancing life’s joys with financial goals. The importance of transparency in decision-making, especially around major purchases, is emphasized, highlighting how teamwork can lead to financial stability.
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Focus On What You Control
- You cannot control everything, but you can control your reactions and choices.
- Focusing on controllables restores agency and reduces victimhood.
Use The Debt Snowball Strategy
- Attack consumer debts smallest-to-largest while paying minimums on others (debt snowball).
- Pay off car first, then HELOC, then mortgage for quickly building momentum.
Keep Investing, Giving, And Having Fun
- You don't 'graduate' from ongoing financial habits like investing, giving, and fun.
- Temporarily scale back retirement to save for a down payment, then resume the rhythm.