Avoid Regret and Find Your Alive Zones | Jodi Wellman
May 6, 2024
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Former executive turned executive coach, Jodi Wellman, discusses the importance of quantifying remaining Mondays to infuse purpose into your career. Learn how facing mortality can inspire urgent career development and personal fulfillment. Gain insights on identifying 'dead zones' holding you back from success and how the pandemic influences our perception of time and opportunities for growth.
Embracing mortality can fuel personal growth and goal achievement by confronting the finite nature of life.
Quantifying time remaining, like counting Mondays left, motivates individuals to prioritize actions aligned with aspirations.
Identifying 'dead zones' as barriers to success can trigger urgent career and personal development, inspired by facing mortality.
Deep dives
Recognizing the Impact of Exposure to Death in the News
Exposure to death in the news triggers a natural reaction to double down on personal worldviews. Understanding this subconscious response can lead to introspection about embracing mortality without letting abstract death impact goals and ambitions.
Importance of Contemplating Mortality as a Motivator
Acknowledging mortality can serve as a motivator to live more fully. Reflecting on the finite nature of life can push individuals to take action on their dreams and goals, avoiding the regret of squandered time and unfulfilled aspirations.
Utilizing Temporal Scarcity Motivation
Measuring time in granular terms, like counting Mondays left, can create a sense of temporal scarcity. Understanding the value of limited time can motivate individuals to appreciate and make the most of each day, prioritizing actions that align with personal goals and aspirations.
Taking Agency to Live a Fulfilled Life
Embracing agency and taking intentional actions are vital in living a fulfilling life. Making choices to engage in activities that bring joy, vitality, and meaning, demonstrating a commitment to actively shape one's life and pursue personal fulfillment.
Embracing Effort to Live a Life Worthy of Satisfaction
Living a fulfilling life requires effort and initiative. Recognizing that achieving happiness and satisfaction entails active participation and deliberate choices, pushing individuals to overcome inertia and take steps to create a life worth living.
Encouraging Action and Intent in Pursuit of Fulfillment
Encouraging readers to take action towards a meaningful and vital life. This involves engaging in deliberate choices, prioritizing personal desires, and actively pursuing activities that bring joy and satisfaction, emphasizing the importance of living authentically and purposefully.
In today’s episode, we tackle death with Jodi Wellman. Jodi is a former executive turned executive coach. She has a Master of Applied Positive Psychology from the University of Pennsylvania, where she's an instructor in the master's program and a trainer in the world renowned Penn Resilience Program. And she is the author of You Only Die Once: How to Make It to the End with No Regrets.
Jodi Wellman reveals essential strategies for transforming your professional stagnation into dynamic success and underscores the importance of quantifying your remaining Monday mornings to infuse purpose into your career, eliminating regrets before they hinder your progress.
What to Listen For
Introduction – 0:00
How can thinking about death enhance your career and life ambitions?
Why should you calculate how many Mondays you have left?
Focus on this to improve your performance and happiness at work – 10:15
Gain insights on the value of time and how precise awareness of it can enhance your decision-making and prioritization at the managerial or C-suite level
Most people are held back from success by their ‘dead zones’ – 18:10
What are 'dead zones' and how can identifying them transform your professional growth and personal fulfillment?
How can facing the reality of mortality inspire urgent career and personal development?
How does the pandemic influence our perception of time and opportunities for growth? – 26:17
Understand the psychological impacts of COVID-19 on our ambitions and social interactions, with tips for re-engaging with life and work post-pandemic.
How do you bake your own 'happiness pie' and take charge of your life satisfaction? – 31:19
How do you start moving from 'dead zones' to 'astonishingly alive zones'?
How can the concept of fighting for your life goals redefine your approach to career and personal ambitions? – 42:39
What is the importance of self-compassion and forgiveness in pursuing a life without regrets?