The Carey Nieuwhof Leadership Podcast

CNLP 296 | Mark Batterson on How He Beat Overwhelm to Keep His Marriage Strong, Strategic Quitting and Continual Innovation and Why Blessing and Generosity Aren't Tied to the Prosperity Gospel

Oct 15, 2019
Mark Batterson, a New York Times bestselling author and pastor, delves into the balance between family and career. He shares insights on strategic quitting, emphasizing the importance of setting boundaries to protect personal life. Mark discusses his reading habits and how they fuel his innovative ideas. He introduces the concept of 'Double Blessing,' focusing on generosity and turning blessings into opportunities for others. With anecdotes of transforming a D.C. city block, he highlights the significance of community impact through church innovation.
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ADVICE

Protect Your Home With Firm Boundaries

  • Set clear boundaries: limit overnight speaking trips, board commitments, and weekly appointments to protect home life.
  • Do the math to justify saying no and prioritize those who know you best, like your spouse and children.
ANECDOTE

Wife’s Truth Sparked Radical Change

  • Laura told Mark, “this isn't what I signed up for,” which prompted him to change his pace and priorities.
  • That honest moment led him to dial back speaking, blogging, and meetings to save his marriage.
ADVICE

Use Math To Say No Strategically

  • Use quantitative reasoning to evaluate trade-offs: multiply impact by time to compare one-on-one meetings versus speaking to thousands.
  • Avoid default yes; create rules (e.g., max three boards) to prevent overcommitment.
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