HBR IdeaCast How to Have a Relationship and a Career
Oct 15, 2019
Jennifer Petriglieri, an associate professor at INSEAD and author of "Couples That Work," delves into the dynamics of dual-career couples. She shares insights from her research on over 100 partnerships, emphasizing the importance of planning and communication. Petriglieri reveals different models for managing dual careers and outlines common traps couples face. She underlines the significance of collaboration and intentionality in balancing love and career aspirations, promoting the idea that challenges can become shared adventures.
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Relationship Contract
- Jennifer Petriglieri and Gianpiero Petriglieri created a relationship contract early in their relationship.
- This contract outlined their wants, fears, and what they were willing to give.
Early Challenges
- Couples often face hard choices early on, like geographic moves or having children.
- These choices force couples to determine how to balance careers and relationships.
Discuss and Define
- Discuss relationship dynamics early and often, focusing on principles before practicalities.
- Establish boundaries and non-negotiables to simplify future decision-making.
