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OPENHOUSE with Louise Rumball and leading therapists

44 - DATING - You only date or chase emotionally unavailable people, if you are emotionally unavailable too. Discussing subconscious blocks to finding love

Jul 18, 2022
43:28
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Chasing emotionally unavailable partners? This podcast explores why we choose people who reinforce how we feel about ourselves, the psychology of breadcrumbing, breaking unconscious attraction patterns, and the correlation between emotional availability and partner choices.
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Quick takeaways

  • Unconscious attraction drives individuals to choose partners who reinforce their own emotional unavailability.
  • Fear of conflict and discomfort can hinder deep intimacy and emotional availability in relationships.

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Emotional unavailability and the role of unconscious attraction

The podcast episode delves into the concept of emotional unavailability and how it is connected to unconscious attraction. The hosts discuss how individuals often find themselves attracted to partners who reinforce their own emotional unavailability. They explain that unconscious attraction is driven by childhood experiences and the need to recreate familiar patterns and roles in relationships. It is emphasized that being emotionally available means being able to connect with oneself, authentically expressing feelings, needs, and experiences, and being open to deep emotional connection and intimacy. The hosts also highlight the importance of recognizing superficial relationships and the fear of true intimacy as barriers to emotional availability.

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