The Happy Millions Show With Liz Benny How To Live Life 100% True To You with Internationally Renowned Dr. John Demartini
Dr. John DeMartini, an internationally published author, global educator, and the founder of a revolutionary tool in modern psychology stated boldly on this show “Your core values are represented by the life you live”.
When you hear that statement, what comes up for you? Many people think they know what is important to them, but then feel unfulfilled in their life and business. If that’s the case, then you aren’t truly living and working from your true values.
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Dr. John Demartini’s mission and vision is to share knowledge and wisdom that empowers you to become a master of your own life and destiny. He joins me to share his thoughts on determining your core values, why that’s the first step to finding true fulfillment, and why he doesn’t believe in labeling people as a whole. Every word he speaks has power, if you listen and implement what he has to say.
We also explored the truth about being dyslexic and why it should be called a “gift” rather than a “curse.“”
Also, if you’ve been floundering under the weight of comparison or feeling unmotivated and unable to make positive steps forward, listen in and find out why.
Nothing is missing in you. Stop letting comparison hold you back.
Enjoy the show!
Show notes:
0:00:00 Dr. DeMartini’s Mission and Vision
0:02:04 A Message For Off-Kilter Entrepreneurs About Scaling Their Business and Building Lives They Love
0:11:16 Understanding What Your Personal Values Really Are
0:15:16 Definition of Void, How It Affects Our Life, and How To Fulfill It
0:18:31 Value Changes and Empowerment in Life and Business
0:22:00 How To Leave An Impact To The World
0:23:40 Moments You Are Most Proud Of
0:26:14 Contextualization of Labels and Personality Types
0:28:49 Exploring The Benefits of Living In Alignment With Your Highest Values
0:34:40 A Conversation With A Successful Entrepreneur
0:39:06 Exploring Dyslexia as a Gift
0:44:19 Mindfulness And Living To Our Fullest Potential
0:46:10 Overcoming Fear of Public Speaking
0:50:28 Fast Talk: 14 Questions
0:57:42 How to Create a Business and Life You Absolutely Love
Quotes
0:10:18 “As long as you do low priority things you're going to devalue yourself.”
0:12:28 “What people do is they have a fantasy about what they want, but their life demonstrates what they really want. And so your hierarchy of values dictates your destiny and determines how you make decisions.”
0:13:42 “You got to start with an honest evaluation and true introspective of what you really value to start the ball rolling. Because if you need motivation to do what you say is important, what you say is important isn't truly important to you.”
0:17:37 “Part of the voids come from judgments that are conscious and unconscious splits. Because if you're conscious of things, you're infatuated with the positives and you're unconscious of the negatives, you're going to look up to it. If you're conscious of the negatives and unconscious of the positives, you're going to look down on it.”
0:30:17 “If I try to envy somebody else, imitate somebody else subordinate to somebody else's value system and expect to live outside my own core structure, I'm going to self depreciate. I'm going to hesitate. I'm going to procrastinate. I'm going to end up depreciating because I'm not living by what's true to me.”
0:30:37 “Unless you shift the values, which you can do if you try to live outside your highest values, you're automatically designed to self depreciate to get you frustrated enough to get you back on highest values and delegate the rest away.”
0:36:27 “If you give something and they make a perfectly fair, sustainable exchange equity theory, you maximize your fulfillment level. And you'll also not be narcissistically proud looking down, which is a facade, or altruistically looking up, which is a facade, you'll just be yourself. You'll be grateful. There's no pretense. You're just serving, doing what you love and being rewarded by it, and you feel grateful.”
0:37:30 “You're not going to avoid challenges, not going to avoid problems. You might as well select them and go after the ones that are deeply meaningful, that are inspiring for you to solve and help. And if you do, your fulfillment level will be up and you won't have distress. You'll have youth stress, which is wellness promoting, because now you're pursuing challenges that inspire you, which maximizes innovation, creativity and genius inside you. You have all those waiting to emerge, nothing's missing in you.”
0:41:18 “It's not an issue unless you make it an issue.”
0:44:42 “Let's own our hero and villain, our saints and our sinner, our virtues and our vices. Let's own it all. So nobody pushes our buttons on the outside that we have to seek or avoid. And we get to be present and exemplify our fullest potential with mindfulness.”
0:45:03 “Your mission is always an expression of what you value most.”
0:45:07 “And the only thing that clouds it is all the injected expectations from outer authorities that you've subordinated to. We're not here to live in the shadows of somebody. We're not here to put people on pedestals or pets. We're here to put them in our heart, stand on their shoulders and do something extraordinary on planet Earth.”