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The Science of Conversation
Mar 21, 2025
Discover the psychology behind effective conversation with tips from a Harvard expert. Learn how to navigate the complex dynamics of dialogue and the importance of goals in communication. Explore the 'conversational compass' to elevate small talk into deep connections. Master the art of questioning to keep engagements lively and meaningful. Finally, delve into the healing power of conversations, particularly in moments of grief, and see how active listening can foster profound connections.
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- Effective conversations hinge on the management of topics, allowing individuals to transition from small talk to deeper, more meaningful discussions.
- Incorporating kindness and levity into conversations enhances engagement and fosters a warm environment where open dialogue can thrive.
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Conversation as a Coordination Game
Conversation functions like a coordination game, where individuals make micro-decisions at every turn. These decisions determine the flow of interaction, such as when to change topics or wrap up a conversation. Each participant navigates their own goals—whether it's being polite, having fun, or sharing information—which necessitates coordination with others in the dialogue. To enhance conversational skills, a framework called the conversational compass helps categorically organize these goals and suggests the TALK maxims, focusing on topics, asking, levity, and kindness to achieve more effective interactions.
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