
Reclaiming with Monica Lewinsky Elizabeth Gilbert
Sep 9, 2025
Elizabeth Gilbert, bestselling author of 'Eat, Pray, Love' and 'City of Girls,' shares her insights on solitude, self-compassion, and courage. She discusses the liberating aspects of celibacy and the significance of befriending oneself. The conversation touches on the challenges women face in reclaiming their stories against societal norms while embracing personal growth through loneliness. Gilbert also reflects on navigating grief, the empowerment of individual agency, and the transformative power of adversity in shaping one's identity.
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Love With A Best Friend
- Gilbert recounts falling in love with her best friend Rhea and leaving her marriage to be with her.
- Rhea's terminal cancer revealed and escalated their relationship into an intense caregiving and romantic period.
When Caregiving Becomes Codependency
- Rhea relapsed into active drug addiction during her cancer, plunging Gilbert into codependency.
- Gilbert admits she descended into 'active codependency' paralleling Rhea's addiction.
Protect Your Life Force In Relationships
- Do study social data about relationships to spot harmful patterns like the marriage benefit imbalance.
- Use that knowledge to protect your life force and avoid automatic overgiving.







