#65: The Inner Game of Leadership: 7 Phases to Upgrade Your Internal OS

Most people who listen to this show don't think of themselves as "high achievers." They think of themselves as people who should be further ahead by now.

They've lived with low-grade panic for so long, they don't notice it anymore. But that pressure isn't proof that you're failing. It's a signal: your Internal Operating System is overdue for an upgrade.

In today's episode, I break down the 7 Phase Inner Leadership Blueprint. It shows you why your old patterns bleed into every part of your life… how your current operating system was formed long before you took on real responsibility… and how to build a new internal system that supports the life you're actually living now.

This is where the true magic of growth happens. Your goals stop fighting your identity. Your relationships stop draining your energy. Your work stops feeling like survival. Life starts moving in one direction instead of pulling you apart.

If you've felt restless, pressured, or stuck in a loop of "shoulds," this is the episode you've been needing.

Listen now.

Show Highlights Include:

• Why success gives you pressure instead of peace (0:31)
• What to do in the exact moment when you realize that achievement doesn't translate into fulfillment (doing this ASAP will help you avoid the dreaded mid-life crisis) (2:06)
• How to upgrade your "Internal Operating System" and become a better leader, a more fulfilled person, and a more connected lover (3:31)
• The insidious "hidden success standard" that cripples your fulfillment, your creativity, and prevents you from relaxing - even as you get promoted, earn a raise, or hit an important business milestone (5:17)
• 6 ways stress-led leadership patterns manifest in real-life behaviors that frustrate your team (and how diagnosing your stress pattern frees you from their control over you) (7:09)
• The ONLY elite skill that separates peak leaders from mediocre micromanagers (12:59)
• How to make your goals, patterns, and identities stop warring with each other and start reinforcing one another instead (14:34)
• The 7 Phase Inner Leadership Blueprint explained, so you can upgrade your "internal operating system" and finally experience life in true, glorious alignment (17:07)

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