

Beyond Success
David Tian
Are you a high achiever who’s worked hard, found success, but still feels like something’s missing? Do you wonder what the point of it all is, and long for deeper meaning or love in your life? Welcome to “Beyond Success,” the podcast for high achievers seeking fulfillment, happiness, and true purpose.
I’m David Tian, Ph.D., Leadership Coach, Certified IFS Therapy Practitioner (Level 3), and a former university professor. I’m also a proud father and husband. I bring two decades of experience, expertise, and a passion for helping others to each episode, delivering transformational insights and breakthroughs.
Join us each week for deep explorations that will challenge your perspective, inspire personal growth, and guide you toward a more fulfilling life. Whether you’re striving for personal or professional excellence, “Beyond Success” offers the tools, methods, and strategies to help you find your way.
Tune in every week for practical wisdom that can lead to real change. If you’re ready to move beyond mere success and discover what truly makes life worth living, this podcast is for you.
If you enjoy the podcast, would you consider leaving a short review on Apple iTunes Podcasts? I really appreciate your feedback and love reading the reviews!
For more about David Tian, go here:
https://www.davidtianphd.com/about/
Emotional Mastery is David Tian’s step-by-step system to transform, regulate, and control your emotions... so that you can master yourself, your interactions with others, and your relationships... and live a life worth living. Learn more here:
https://www.davidtianphd.com/emotionalmastery
I’m David Tian, Ph.D., Leadership Coach, Certified IFS Therapy Practitioner (Level 3), and a former university professor. I’m also a proud father and husband. I bring two decades of experience, expertise, and a passion for helping others to each episode, delivering transformational insights and breakthroughs.
Join us each week for deep explorations that will challenge your perspective, inspire personal growth, and guide you toward a more fulfilling life. Whether you’re striving for personal or professional excellence, “Beyond Success” offers the tools, methods, and strategies to help you find your way.
Tune in every week for practical wisdom that can lead to real change. If you’re ready to move beyond mere success and discover what truly makes life worth living, this podcast is for you.
If you enjoy the podcast, would you consider leaving a short review on Apple iTunes Podcasts? I really appreciate your feedback and love reading the reviews!
For more about David Tian, go here:
https://www.davidtianphd.com/about/
Emotional Mastery is David Tian’s step-by-step system to transform, regulate, and control your emotions... so that you can master yourself, your interactions with others, and your relationships... and live a life worth living. Learn more here:
https://www.davidtianphd.com/emotionalmastery
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Sep 12, 2025 • 34min
#53: Breaking Free from Sexual Shame: The Hidden Weight You Don't Have to Carry
Most people, thanks to religious, cultural, or family baggage, carry around the unnecessary burden of toxic sexual shame. Sometimes this isn’t even your own shame, it’s been passed down through generations under the guise of virtue. Here’s the problem: Unchecked sexual shame seeps into your relationships, your leadership, and threatens your very fulfillment of life. Even if it was never yours to carry. That’s why it’s imperative to lift your burden of sexual shame. Not only will it keep your relationships shallow, but it will also shatter your sense of self-trust and corrode your confidence. Worst part? Sexual shame often manifests in the worst possible ways: in compulsions, addictions, secrecy, and self-sabotage. That’s the bad news. The good news? You don’t have to allow your shame to be your teacher any longer after you listen to this episode. In today’s show, you’ll discover how religious, cultural, and family baggage fill you with borrowed shame, how reframing sexual morality can lift your burden of sexual shame, and the consequences of continuing to repress your sexual shadow - and how to integrate it instead. Listen now. Show Highlights Include: How sexual morality crushes you under the weight of sexual shame and holds you back from trust, intimacy, and fulfillment (1:11) Why do people carry sexual guilt for decades longer than even theft guilt or murder guilt? (5:41) How toxic shame “oozes” out of you in the form of compulsions, betrayals, and even living a double life (6:38) The corrupted history of sexual morality and how it continues to fill couples with unexplainable shame to this day (9:11) Here’s the cold hard truth about why you act one way in public and another in private (11:54) This question helps you reframe sexual morality in a positive way instead of one that fills you with toxic shame (13:37) How your sexual shadow seeps out in addictions, secrecy, and self-sabotage (and how to address it before it shatters your marriage) (19:01) 4 ways to practice sexual morality in a way that eliminates the burden of sexual shame instead of contributing to it (27:35) For more about David Tian, go here: https://www.davidtianphd.com/about/ Feeling like success in one area of life has come at the expense of another? Maybe you’ve crushed it in your career, but your relationships feel strained. Or you’ve built the life you thought you wanted, yet there’s still something important missing. I’ve put together a free 3-minute assessment to help you see what’s really holding you back. Answer a few simple questions, and you’ll get instant access to a personalized masterclass that speaks directly to where you are right now. It’s fast. It’s practical. And it could change the way you approach leadership, love, and fulfillment. Take the first step here → https://dtphd.com/quiz

Sep 5, 2025 • 30min
#52: Why Compassion is the Secret to Trust, Love, & Fulfillment
There’s one ingredient missing from many high achievers’ lives that drains all the fulfillment from their success, turns small failures into a life-or-death scenario, and slowly poisons your relationships at home and at work. Worst part? Most high achievers have conditioned themselves into believing that this missing ingredient is a weakness to be snuffed out at each step. So, they trap themselves in a toxic cycle that keeps repeating no matter how many of the variables they try to change. The missing ingredient? Compassion. Not only is compassion not a weakness, but it’s a strength that expresses your maturity. In today’s show, I’ll explain why compassion is the missing ingredient to your fulfillment, I’ll share the historical, religious, and evolutionary arguments for compassion, and you’ll discover simple ways to start practicing compassion so your compassion muscle and fulfillment grows. Listen now. Show Highlights Include: How a lack of compassion results in a total lack of fulfillment, even if it doesn’t appear that way on the surface (1:31) The cold, hard truth about why you’re avoiding being compassionate (and the insidious consequences that can arise when you stop yourself from giving compassion to others) (4:34) The evolutionary proof that compassion is necessary for thriving in life (7:10) How compassion glues your different parts together and creates a reliable stream of self-trust and unshakeable confidence (9:05) Here’s why the most insecure people are also the most selfish and self-centered (13:40) Why the fastest way to heal yourself is to heal others (according to the Buddha) (14:30) 3 ways a lack of compassion undermines your leadership, poisons your relationships, and hijacks your inner world (16:39) How to start practicing compassion in your life if you don’t know where to begin (20:46) For more about David Tian, go here: https://www.davidtianphd.com/about/ Feeling like success in one area of life has come at the expense of another? Maybe you’ve crushed it in your career, but your relationships feel strained. Or you’ve built the life you thought you wanted, yet there’s still something important missing. I’ve put together a free 3-minute assessment to help you see what’s really holding you back. Answer a few simple questions, and you’ll get instant access to a personalized masterclass that speaks directly to where you are right now. It’s fast. It’s practical. And it could change the way you approach leadership, love, and fulfillment. Take the first step here → https://dtphd.com/quiz

Aug 29, 2025 • 26min
#51: Why Courage Is Key to the Life You’ve Been Chasing
Most people treat fear as the enemy. They avoid it, numb it, or try to silence it. But here’s the truth: fear isn’t the problem. Fear is the forge where courage is born. Every meaningful step in life requires it. Asking for the promotion. Saying what you actually want in a relationship. Telling the truth when it risks your reputation. Without courage, integrity collapses. Relationships stay shallow. Careers stall. And fulfillment slips further out of reach. In this new episode, David reveals why courage isn’t about being fearless, but about acting even while fear screams at you to run. You’ll hear how our deepest protective patterns—whether in love or leadership—form around fear, and why they keep us stuck until we summon the courage to face them. Drawing on ancient wisdom, modern psychology, and real-world client stories, David explains how courage creates the self-trust, stability, and intimacy that fulfillment demands. And he offers practical steps to start cultivating courage daily—through mapping your fears, practicing small acts of bravery, and surrounding yourself with peers who lift you higher. The life you’ve been chasing doesn’t require perfection. It requires courage. Because without it, you’re destined for mediocrity. With it, you finally open the door to growth, connection, and a life worth living. Listen now. Show Highlights Include: How fear stalls your career, keeps relationships shallow, and slowly erodes your self-worth (and how to stop letting fear control your life) (1:23) The twisted way avoiding your fear makes you feel them 10x worse (5:39) Why waiting for your fear to disappear is a losing strategy (and how to hone your fears to build courage) (7:33) How to guarantee your life is nothing but mediocrity (and the ONLY path to true greatness) (12:05) How fear can either expand your life or shrink your existence (15:19) The “Progressive Overload” secret for building your courageous muscle slowly over time (instead of burning out paralyzed by fear) (16:22) How simply hanging around more courageous people can quickly ramp up your own courage (20:26) For more about David Tian, go here: https://www.davidtianphd.com/about/ Feeling like success in one area of life has come at the expense of another? Maybe you’ve crushed it in your career, but your relationships feel strained. Or you’ve built the life you thought you wanted, yet there’s still something important missing. I’ve put together a free 3-minute assessment to help you see what’s really holding you back. Answer a few simple questions, and you’ll get instant access to a personalized masterclass that speaks directly to where you are right now. It’s fast. It’s practical. And it could change the way you approach leadership, love, and fulfillment. Take the first step here → https://dtphd.com/quiz

Aug 22, 2025 • 32min
#50: Integrity: Why It's Required for Happiness & How to Cultivate It
If you constantly feel on edge, like a wave of anxiety is always crashing directly into your nervous system, then I have some tough news for you: The root of anxiety is almost always a lack of integrity in some aspect of your life. When you tell yourself one thing, but then do another thing, your body keeps score. It knows you’re lying to yourself (and to others). And this is where integrity fractures, causing insurmountable anxiety, agitation, and a complete loss of peace and fulfillment. But you know what? Even if your lack of integrity has caused mental distress, it’s possible to claw your way out of the hole you’ve built and rebuild your self-trust. It won’t be easy or pretty. But the deep sense of relief and peace you feel on the other side will be worth it. In today’s show, you’ll discover why integrity feeds happiness & fulfillment, how the consequences of broken integrity could literally land you in a federal prison like Elizabeth Holmes, and the 4-step process for cultivating your integrity and reclaiming your mental health. Listen now. Show Highlights Include: The cautionary tale about the true, real-world cost of acting without integrity (and how it got Elizabeth Holmes, founder of Theranos, serving 11 years in federal prison) (0:44) The “Showshen” secret for developing an ironclad sense of integrity before a lack of integrity rips everything good from your life (4:15) How living two or three lives at once not only fractures your integrity, but also slowly eats away at your sense of fulfillment (5:40) Why developing your sense of integrity will actually energize you (even if it seems like a tough hill to climb at the beginning) (7:01) The one common denominator behind almost every psychotherapeutic problem and every therapy appointment (8:05) How integrity physically reduces your cortisol levels (the stress hormone) permanently (9:43) The insidious way lying to yourself creates anxiety and self-doubt and demolishes your self-trust (and how this applies to even innocent white lies) (11:06) 12 real-world consequences of broken integrity that you may not notice now, but will come back to haunt you (14 :56) Listening to this client story will forever change the way you think about anxiety (16:58) The 4-step formula to cultivate your integrity and create a life filled with peace and harmony and fulfillment (20:26) For more about David Tian, go here: https://www.davidtianphd.com/about/ Want more success in leadership, deeper connections, or a greater sense of fulfillment? Take this free assessment—it’s fast, easy, and tailored to your unique situation. Answer a few simple questions, and you’ll get instant access to a suite of masterclasses designed specifically for where you are right now. Whether you’re struggling or simply want more out of life, this is your next step. No guesswork. Just clarity. Click here and see what’s waiting for you: https://dtphd.com/quiz Emotional Mastery is David Tian's step-by-step system to transform, regulate, and control your emotions... so that you can master yourself, your interactions with others, and your relationships... and live a life worth living. Learn more here: https://www.davidtianphd.com/emotionalmastery

Aug 15, 2025 • 30min
#49: The Surprising Power of Moral Character in a Cutthroat World
There’s a deep irony that happens to people who chase validation and power at all costs: They’re the ones who end up exhausted, paranoid, alone, burnt out, bitter, and resentful in the long-term. If it hasn't happened yet, it’s only a matter of time. The trouble is, many high achievers fall into this insidious trap of self-sabotage. You may have even noticed some of the signs starting to emerge in your life. There is a solution to this. A way where you build trust with your inner system, and get peace as the result. But it won’t be easy. The solution? Developing your sense of moral character and staying consistent to your values, even when (or perhaps especially when) it’s hard. In today’s show, you’ll discover why moral character is a prerequisite to living a long and happy life, the real world cost to your body and health when you don’t live in accordance to your values, and why your morality can give you a deeper meaning of success. Listen now. Show Highlights Include: How developing your moral character will help you sleep at night, free you from your anxieties, and let you set down the mask you’ve been wearing (3:02) The real world cost to your health when you betray your values backed by scientific research (5:57) This question will change your view of success from one that looks good on paper to one that makes life worth living (7:44) The biological and evolutionary reason for developing your moral compass (8:08) How developing good character will make you a better partner - in both the bedroom and the boardroom (9:54) The “investment in your nervous system” mindset shift to stop seeing moral virtue as a sacrifice (22:10) For more about David Tian, go here: https://www.davidtianphd.com/about/ Want more success in leadership, deeper connections, or a greater sense of fulfillment? Take this free assessment—it’s fast, easy, and tailored to your unique situation. Answer a few simple questions, and you’ll get instant access to a suite of masterclasses designed specifically for where you are right now. Whether you’re struggling or simply want more out of life, this is your next step. No guesswork. Just clarity. Click here and see what’s waiting for you: https://dtphd.com/quiz Emotional Mastery is David Tian's step-by-step system to transform, regulate, and control your emotions... so that you can master yourself, your interactions with others, and your relationships... and live a life worth living. Learn more here: https://www.davidtianphd.com/emotionalmastery

Aug 8, 2025 • 27min
#48: Why the Sage's Journey Fulfills You When the Hero's Journey Stops Making Sense
There’s an ancient Western myth that’s been adopted by the masses and often without their consent. It can be found in movies like Star Wars and Finding Nemo. It’s in books like The Lord of the Rings and Harry Potter. It’s the secret theme included in your favorite TEDx Talk. And it’s something that’s taken for granted in almost every business podcast that exists. Worst part? This myth may be responsible for your success… but, if left unchecked, it’s responsible for the low-grade anxiety, under-the-surface numbness, and quiet sadness you feel but never talk about. The same story that got you this far - to win, to prove, to conquer - is the very thing keeping you stuck. It’s The Hero’s Journey and you can see its impact in nearly every kind of media you consume. But the problem is, stories never tell the full story - and after successfully going through The Hero’s Journey, life takes on a bleak and gray undertone that whispers, “You’re not enough and will never be enough.” That’s the bad news. The good news? The Sage’s Journey is the antidote to the dull ache of confusion inside you. But it’s not a tale of conquering dragons, so you may have never heard of it. And it’s definitely not as well known, even though it’s just as ancient. That’s because it’s a quieter journey. One that happens in your internal world instead of the external one. And it’s the only way to unlock joy and lasting fulfillment in your life. And that’s what you’ll discover when you tune into this week’s show. Listen now. Show Highlights Include: How the “Warrior Identity” that’s responsible for your success is also the root cause of your emotional exhaustion and lack of fulfillment in life (and how to upgrade your identity) (0:24) The “Path of the Sage” secret to stop proving yourself and to start becoming yourself (2:26) Why books, movies, graduation speeches, and even business podcasts silently fill you with an unquenchable sense of existential dread that only The Sage’s Journey can solve (2:54) How to experience unbridled joy, naturally, when you bend down to tie your shoes, as you browse through the grocery store, and when you hold a child (16:06) The “Conquering Your Dragon” trap high achievers fall into that only reinforces your belief that you’re not enough (and how to set your sword down and experience freedom for perhaps the first time) (20:24) For more about David Tian, go here: https://www.davidtianphd.com/about/ Want more success in leadership, deeper connections, or a greater sense of fulfillment? Take this free assessment—it’s fast, easy, and tailored to your unique situation. Answer a few simple questions, and you’ll get instant access to a suite of masterclasses designed specifically for where you are right now. Whether you’re struggling or simply want more out of life, this is your next step. No guesswork. Just clarity. Click here and see what’s waiting for you: https://dtphd.com/quiz Emotional Mastery is David Tian's step-by-step system to transform, regulate, and control your emotions... so that you can master yourself, your interactions with others, and your relationships... and live a life worth living. Learn more here: https://www.davidtianphd.com/emotionalmastery

Aug 1, 2025 • 20min
#47: Why Self-Help Isn't Working (& The Mirror Method That Finally Does)
Most people I’ve coached have a similar story: They inherited the “Silent Blueprint” lie as a child that told them they must perform, impress, and achieve to feel like they’re enough. And yet, at a certain point, their wins feel like losses. No matter how much they achieve, they go to bed with a dull emptiness in their chest that they can’t explain, much less address. Why? Because no amount of winning fills the void in your internal system. Turns out, the “Silent Blueprint” wasn’t just a lie, but an insidious one that poisons your happiness and fulfillment from the inside out. That’s the bad news. The good news? In today’s show, I explain how to use my proven “Mirror Method” to address your unexplored past, unburden inner parts you’ve suppressed and exiled, and finally integrate your parts and step out of self-sabotaging cycles for good. Let me be clear: This deep work is not easy. But it’s the only thing that can fill the empty emotional crater in your chest. Listen now. Show Highlights Include: The insidious dull ache in many so-called successful people, explained (0:31) The “Silent Blueprint” lie many of us were told is the recipe for happiness (and why it only fills you with emptiness instead) (2:35) How to conquer your “high achiever anxiety” that turns wins into losses, triumphs into defeats, and accomplishments into existential emptiness (3:21) A psychological explanation of self-sabotage that actually empowers you to address the root cause (5:14) The “Mirror Method” for getting to know your parts without judgment or fear, so you can integrate them and stop the vicious loop of self-destruction for good (8:24) Why reading more books, taking more courses, and tweaking more Notion dashboards is a wicked form of procrastination in disguise that burdens you with shame (11:32) The weird reason it’s your moral duty to integrate your parts (13:38) For more about David Tian, go here: https://www.davidtianphd.com/about/ Want more success in leadership, deeper connections, or a greater sense of fulfillment? Take this free assessment—it’s fast, easy, and tailored to your unique situation. Answer a few simple questions, and you’ll get instant access to a suite of masterclasses designed specifically for where you are right now. Whether you’re struggling or simply want more out of life, this is your next step. No guesswork. Just clarity. Click here and see what’s waiting for you: https://dtphd.com/quiz Emotional Mastery is David Tian's step-by-step system to transform, regulate, and control your emotions... so that you can master yourself, your interactions with others, and your relationships... and live a life worth living. Learn more here: https://www.davidtianphd.com/emotionalmastery

Jul 25, 2025 • 21min
#46: Why You Still Feel Stuck Even After Doing 'The Work'
So many high achievers do the “right things.” They read the books. They practice breath work. They follow the morning routines. They “hack” their productivity. All of these things can make them feel calmer, more in control, and more focused. Until chaos erupts, and you find yourself back in your same-old destructive patterns and emotional loops. Why does this happen? Because most personal development is only surface level. And since it’s only surface level, as soon as your deeper parts get triggered, they act in the only way they know how. In other words, falling back into the same emotional loops is a sign that you haven’t deeply healed your inner system yet. That’s the bad news. The worse news?Doing more of the “right things” cannot fix these deeper wounds. In fact, they’ll only make them worse. But in today’s episode, you’ll discover how you can actually heal these deeper wounds and finally integrate all of your parts into a harmonious inner system. It’s the only proven way to permanently stop repeating the same destructive patterns. Listen now. Show Highlights Include: The cold, hard truth about why the personal growth changes you make never last (1:02) Carl Jung’s secret for healing your emotional world and actually making it stick (5:04) Why making your inner critic shut up actually delays your healing journey (and why listening to it can finally make it stop sabotaging you) (5:32) The "Internal War” trap that leads to burnout, rage, and self-destruction (7:52) Here’s what you can expect to feel on a daily basis when you fully integrate your parts (14:05) How high achievers actually make their work, their relationships, and their life harder (and the only proven way to get out of your own way) (14:55) For more about David Tian, go here: https://www.davidtianphd.com/about/ Want more success in leadership, deeper connections, or a greater sense of fulfillment? Take this free assessment—it’s fast, easy, and tailored to your unique situation. Answer a few simple questions, and you’ll get instant access to a suite of masterclasses designed specifically for where you are right now. Whether you’re struggling or simply want more out of life, this is your next step. No guesswork. Just clarity. Click here and see what’s waiting for you: https://dtphd.com/quiz Emotional Mastery is David Tian's step-by-step system to transform, regulate, and control your emotions... so that you can master yourself, your interactions with others, and your relationships... and live a life worth living. Learn more here: https://www.davidtianphd.com/emotionalmastery

Jul 18, 2025 • 22min
#45: Why Hustling Harder Will Only Get You Worse Results
Most high achievers are being driven by the absolute worst source of fuel: Fear, guilt, shame, and insecurities. These traps are alluring because they’re actually effective routes to short-term success. And they disguise themselves as grit, discipline, and sheer determination. Problem is… the well eventually runs dry. And that’s the real reason why you feel stuck, uninspired, drained, and like you’re always playing catch up. Worst part? You might feel like you’re being lazy, undisciplined, or just aren’t hungry enough. That’s when most high achievers double down, hustle harder, and deprive themselves of the simple joy of being alive. And no amount of short-term success can prevent the inevitable long-term debt you’ll pay: Your relationships suffer. Your body suffers. You hit milestones that feel meaningless. You drift through your days numb, distracted, or secretly angry. And you lose yourself trying to win a race that never ends. But here’s the good news: This doesn’t have to be your life. You just need a different source of fuel. And in today’s show, you’ll discover what this different source of fuel is and how to build it. Listen now. Show Highlights Include: The true source of success that many high achievers never realize until they feel dead inside (0:41) The weird thing drinking too much caffeine reveals about your success, fulfillment, and happiness (especially over the long-term) (2:12) The neurochemical explanation behind flow (and how understanding the science behind it allows you to enter it more freely) (2:55) Why designing your life around enjoyment instead of suffering is the single best formula for long-term career success (even if it sounds wrong, lazy, or feels like you’re cheating) (4:16) The counterintuitive reason discipline and grit will break you (7:16) The "leaking energy” trap which explains your burnout, your daily frustrations, and your overwhelming sense of hopelessness even in the midst of “success” (12:02) How to expand your tolerance for discomfort, give your pain a place to go, and turn the crap you’ve been through into unlimited fuel (and why most high achievers never accomplish this) (14:18) For more about David Tian, go here: https://www.davidtianphd.com/about/ Want more success in leadership, deeper connections, or a greater sense of fulfillment? Take this free assessment—it’s fast, easy, and tailored to your unique situation. Answer a few simple questions, and you’ll get instant access to a suite of masterclasses designed specifically for where you are right now. Whether you’re struggling or simply want more out of life, this is your next step. No guesswork. Just clarity. Click here and see what’s waiting for you: https://dtphd.com/quiz Emotional Mastery is David Tian's step-by-step system to transform, regulate, and control your emotions... so that you can master yourself, your interactions with others, and your relationships... and live a life worth living. Learn more here: https://www.davidtianphd.com/emotionalmastery

Jul 11, 2025 • 21min
#44: When 'Self-Defense' Becomes Self-Destruction
Many leaders are driven by an insidious fear that tells them their sense of self-worth depends on their ability to protect their mask. But your mask is just an outdated story your subconscious created, and protecting this mask can only drive a wedge between you and your spouse, your kids, and your team. This is why it feels like you’re constantly at war. You are. Feedback morphs into betrayal. Correction morphs into humiliation. Making a mistake makes you feel like you’re being erased. This is not a good way to live - and it’s an even worse way to lead. It leaves nothing but destruction and turmoil in your wake. Worst part? If you’re driven by fear, it’s not an easy fix. But it is possible. In today’s show, you’ll discover sneaky ways you’re letting your fear control you, understand the real world consequences that follow by continuing to live in fear, and learn the tough way to break out of fear’s grip before it shatters everything you love about your life. Listen now. Show Highlights Include: The “Weaponizing Self-Defense” trap that leaders fall into that burns out their team, damages their relationships, and subdues them into isolation (0:52) Why you always feel like you’re at war in your personal and professional life (and the hard, yet effective way to overcome this feeling) (4:10) How fear makes you see your shortcomings in everyone except yourself (5:26) This sentence is the most toxic phrase a parent can speak (worst part? it masquerades as self-defense, but it’s actually deflection) (7:48) Why shame turns into contempt for the people you love most (and how to stop it before it cripples your marriage) (9:16) How your desire to control the myth your subconscious mind created causes you to lash out at your spouse, explode on your team, and burden your children with your emotional baggage (11:29) For more about David Tian, go here: https://www.davidtianphd.com/about/ Want more success in leadership, deeper connections, or a greater sense of fulfillment? Take this free assessment—it’s fast, easy, and tailored to your unique situation. Answer a few simple questions, and you’ll get instant access to a suite of masterclasses designed specifically for where you are right now. Whether you’re struggling or simply want more out of life, this is your next step. No guesswork. Just clarity. Click here and see what’s waiting for you: https://dtphd.com/quiz Emotional Mastery is David Tian's step-by-step system to transform, regulate, and control your emotions... so that you can master yourself, your interactions with others, and your relationships... and live a life worth living. Learn more here: https://www.davidtianphd.com/emotionalmastery