It's A Lot with Abbie Chatfield

DR VINCENT HURLEY: Domestic Violence Is A Male Problem

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Jun 16, 2025
Dr. Vincent Hurley, a criminology lecturer and former police officer, passionately tackles the pressing issue of domestic violence, branding it a male-centric problem. He discusses the need for male advocacy and community support for victims, while also addressing the complexities of coercive control and the challenges within the legal system. Dr. Hurley shares insights on modern dating vulnerabilities and emphasizes the importance of financial independence for women. He advocates for enhanced safety strategies and urges men to take an active role in combating gender-based violence.
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INSIGHT

Men Must Own The Problem

  • Domestic violence is fundamentally a male problem causing social harm.
  • The term "domestic" downplays the brutality of violence against women.
ANECDOTE

Children Suffer Most

  • Vincent Hurley was deeply affected by seeing children caught in domestic violence.
  • Perpetrators often use children as human shields or manipulation tools.
INSIGHT

Victims Are Not At Fault

  • It's unfair to blame victims who stay in abusive relationships.
  • Emotional thresholds and circumstances dictate when and if victims leave.
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