Foreplay Radio – Couples and Sex Therapy 466: The S*xual Pursuer Gets Their Day
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Nov 15, 2024 This discussion dives into the emotional landscape of sexual pursuers and their quests for intimacy. It highlights the importance of emotional safety and open communication to address vulnerabilities and anxieties in relationships. The hosts explore the challenges of navigating rejection, the impact of attachment styles, and the complexities of desire. Role-playing exercises reveal deeper emotional experiences, emphasizing empathy and support in overcoming negative self-images. Plus, a special invitation to an upcoming Nashville event for therapists adds an engaging twist!
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Emotional Safety First
- Prioritize addressing the emotional cycle before the sexual cycle in couples therapy.
- Create safety and connection first, then address sexual concerns.
Pursuer Focus
- Sexual pursuers often focus on changing their partner instead of self-reflection.
- Encourage pursuers to examine their own feelings of rejection and vulnerability.
Expressing Vulnerability
- Help sexual pursuers express their vulnerability and pain to their partners.
- Showing heartfelt emotions can be more motivating than criticism.