Good Inside with Dr. Becky

The Future of Fatherhood: Raising Boys and Ourselves

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Jun 17, 2025
This conversation dives into the evolving dynamics of modern fatherhood, addressing the roots of toxic masculinity and the emotional education boys often miss. It advocates for intentional parenting, highlighting the importance of nurturing emotional intelligence in boys. The challenges of breaking generational cycles in fathering are discussed, emphasizing that parenting is a learned skill. Expressing appreciation in relationships and the power of accountability are also explored, showcasing how repairing mistakes can strengthen familial bonds and boost children's self-esteem.
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INSIGHT

Bad Boy Labels Harm Boys

  • Boys are often labeled as "bad boys," which negatively shapes their identity and behavior.
  • Bad behavior shows feelings overpower skills; kids need emotional regulation skills to improve behavior.
INSIGHT

Early Signs of Toxic Masculinity

  • Toxic masculinity limits young boys to express only anger and blame.
  • Boys often externalize disappointment through blame rather than feeling it internally.
ANECDOTE

Basketball Example Shows Emotional Expression

  • Observing boys at basketball games blaming refs or teammates shows expression of disappointment.
  • A dad recognizing and naming these feelings to his son helps normalize emotional expression.
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