Sara Campbell, a coach on a mission to help people develop a strong relationship with themselves, discusses the importance of removing layers of who we are not and becoming who we are meant to be. She shares lessons from Zen Buddhism, living out loud and sharing vulnerability, and the significance of self-compassion in overcoming self-criticism. Sara also talks about managing energy, getting started with meditation, setting intentions and goals, and embracing emergence and experimentation.
Developing a strong relationship with oneself is essential for personal growth and fulfillment.
Becoming who you are means removing layers of who you are not.
Zen Buddhism and the Bodhisattva vow teach the importance of mindfulness and self-acceptance.
Deep dives
Sarah Campbell's Work and Mission
Sarah Campbell's work revolves around helping people develop a strong relationship with themselves and learning to hear and listen to themselves. She is a coach, part of an online writing collective, and actively involved in Zen Buddhism. She also writes a personal newsletter called Tiny Revolutions that explores her ups and downs. After years of career experiences, Sarah feels she has finally found a through line in her heart-centered projects.
Becoming Who You Are
Sarah Campbell believes that becoming who you are is not about building oneself, but rather removing the layers of who you are not. Sarah emphasizes the importance of uncovering one's true self and not trying to perform or be someone else for the sake of impressing others. She encourages people to discover their true desires and intentions, focusing on their own growth and fulfillment.
The Intersection of Zen and Entrepreneurship
Sarah Campbell found solace and relief in Zen Buddhism, particularly in the practice of meditation. She experienced a shift from always trying to perform and impress others to accepting herself as she is through the practice of radical acceptance. Zen practice taught her the value of being in the present moment and being true to oneself, rather than striving for external validation. Sarah acknowledges the tension that can exist between the entrepreneurial world and Zen Buddhism, but she emphasizes the importance of finding clarity and authenticity in one's journey.
Recognizing the need for alignment with personal passions
The speaker reflects on their experience of ending a previous business relationship and emphasizes the importance of pursuing endeavors that align with one's genuine interests and values. They realize that although a product idea might seem great, it is essential to consider whether they truly care about it and if it aligns with their core mission.
Balancing problem-solving with personal fulfillment
The speaker discusses their tendency to get caught up in solving other people's problems and explains their shift towards focusing more on self-discovery and personal fulfillment. They share examples from their own experiences and highlight the importance of prioritizing activities and projects that align with their own interests and energies, rather than constantly solving problems for others. The speaker emphasizes the need for self-compassion and acknowledging personal limitations in order to pursue a more fulfilling and purpose-driven path.
In this conversation, Sara Campbell discusses her work as a coach and her mission to help people develop a strong relationship with themselves. She shares her journey of becoming who she is meant to be and the importance of removing layers of who we are not. Sara also talks about the lessons she has learned from Zen Buddhism, emphasizes the value of living out loud and sharing vulnerability, as well as the importance of self-compassion and overcoming self-criticism.
(06:56) - The Specificity of Ambitions and the Doing
(12:27) - Formalizing the Coaching Practice
(15:16) - The Bodhisattva Vow
(17:22) - Living Out Loud and Sharing Vulnerability
(20:49) - Crash and Burn Moments
(26:23) - Helping Others and Becoming Who You Are
(29:02) - Managing Energy
(34:36) - Getting Started with Meditation
(38:42) - Setting Intentions and Goals
(44:16) - Embracing Emergence and Experimentation
(46:34) - Bringing Ideas to Light Through Podcasting
(52:37) - Trojan Houses for Development
(55:13) - Integrating Podcasting into Courses and Coaching
(57:11) - Follow Sara
Takeaways
Developing a strong relationship with oneself is essential for personal growth and fulfillment.
Becoming who you are means removing layers of who you are not.
Zen Buddhism and the Bodhisattva vow teach the importance of mindfulness, self-acceptance, and treating oneself and others with respect and care.
Living out loud and sharing vulnerability can create connections and help others feel less alone.
Practicing self-compassion and overcoming self-criticism are crucial for personal well-being.
Getting started with meditation can be done through apps like Headspace, Calm, and Waking Up. Start a meditation practice by using meditation apps or attending local meditation centers.
Take action and start somewhere, even if it's small, to avoid getting overwhelmed by choices.
Simplify belongings and focus on actions rather than material possessions.
Set intentions and goals to guide your actions and progress.
Experiment and embrace emergence in your personal and professional development.
Consider podcasting as a medium to share ideas and engage with listeners.
Integrate podcasting into courses and coaching programs to enhance the learning experience.