Dolly Doctor on how to talk to teens about sex and consent
Jan 7, 2025
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Dr. Melissa Kang, the beloved Dolly Doctor, shares her insights from over two decades of guiding Aussie teens through puberty. She delves into the uncomfortable yet necessary conversations about sex and consent that parents shy away from. The impacts of pornography on teens’ views, the rise of misogyny among young boys, and new sexual practices highlight the urgency of inclusive education. Kang emphasizes fostering respect and communication, making it clear that navigating these topics is crucial in today’s digital age.
Dr. Melissa Kang emphasizes the critical need for open conversations about sex and consent amidst societal discomfort and limited formal education.
The impact of pornography on adolescents highlights the importance of proactive engagement from parents and educators in discussing sexual relationships and realities.
Deep dives
The Role of Dolly Doctor in Sexual Education
Dolly Doctor was a pivotal resource in Australia for young people seeking information about their bodies, sexuality, and relationships, particularly in a time when such topics were often taboo in families and schools. Dr. Melissa Kang, who answered questions as Dolly Doctor for over two decades, highlighted the magazine's importance in providing accurate information that many teenagers lacked elsewhere. With the rise of the internet, the need for such resources has evolved, but the foundational role of Dolly Doctor in fostering open conversations about sex remains significant. It underscored the necessity for accessible and reliable sexual education for adolescents during a time of limited formal education on these topics.
Challenges in Discussing Sex and Consent
Societal discomfort with discussing sex often extends to parents and educators, who may struggle to address these topics openly with children and adolescents. This hesitation can lead to gaps in young people's understanding of bodies, consent, and healthy sexual practices. Furthermore, recent movements advocating for mandatory consent education represent a shift towards addressing these issues more proactively in schools. However, there are still concerns about how comprehensively and effectively sex education is delivered, particularly regarding the specifics of sexual practices and the importance of consent.
Navigating Modern Challenges in Sexuality Education
The rise of pornography accessible to younger audiences has introduced new complexities in how adolescents understand sexual relationships and consent. Dr. Kang emphasized the potential negative influence of pornography on their perceptions, often presenting unrealistic and harmful portrayals of sex. This new landscape requires parents and educators to engage in proactive conversations about what children may encounter online, emphasizing the distinction between reality and the depictions they might see. Open dialogue, free of shame, is essential for guiding young people toward a healthier understanding of sex, relationships, and personal autonomy.
For more than 20 years Dr Melissa Kang helped Australian teenagers navigate puberty with her much-loved column Dolly Doctor. Kang speaks to Reged Ahmad about why it’s more important than ever to have that conversation You can support the Guardian at theguardian.com/fullstorysupport
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