My First Million

Mark Manson: Money, Dating, & The Subtle Art of Not Giving A F*ck

Aug 29, 2023

Mark Manson, a three-time #1 NY Times Bestselling Author known for his insightful self-help writing, discusses the importance of authenticity in dating over cheesy pickup lines. He critiques the allure of toxic masculinity exemplified by figures like Andrew Tate. Manson also shares his innovative approach to YouTube, focusing on story-driven content rather than quick dopamine hits. He emphasizes the value of genuine connections and authentic storytelling in today's media landscape, advocating for deeper engagement in the creator economy.

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The podcast highlights the toxic nature of the pickup artist movement and emphasizes the need for a more authentic and transformative approach in the personal development industry.

The speaker discusses leveraging YouTube as a platform for creating engaging and character-driven content that resonates with viewers, bridging the gap between retention-focused YouTube content and character-driven traditional media.

The importance of authenticity, credibility, and avoiding manipulative tactics is emphasized in content creation, aiming for genuine connections and meaningful transformations among the audience.

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Exploring the Rise of Online Personal Development Industry

The podcast episode delves into the rise of the online personal development industry, with a specific focus on the pickup artist movement and the current phenomenon of YouTuber Andrew Tate. The speaker reflects on the toxic nature of some segments of the industry, highlighting the misleading incentives and the negative impact on both coaches and clients. The podcast also explores the potential for a shift towards a more authentic and transformative form of content creation, leveraging the success of YouTuber Mr. Beast as inspiration. The speaker discusses the importance of character development and narrative in creating impactful content that resonates with viewers.

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The Contrasting Nature of YouTube and Traditional Media

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Intro

3min

Lessons from Poker and Personal Growth

18min

The Charismatic Appeal of Toxic Masculinity

5min

The Journey to Authentic Content Creation

20min

The Freedom of Financial Independence and the Complexity of Therapy

2min

Navigating Digital Storytelling

16min

Behind the Spotlight: Celebrities and Authenticity

7min

Episode 489: Shaan Puri (https://twitter.com/ShaanVP) talks with 3x #1 NYTimes Bestselling Author Mark Manson (https://twitter.com/IAmMarkManson) about the pitfalls of relying on pickup lines and cheesy routines, and the importance of embracing authenticity and natural approaches. He also delves into his approach to YouTube — turning the Mr.Beast model on it’s head and creating Youtube challenges that are story driven in a world of quick dopamine hits. Join us as we dive deep into Mark's story, exploring the impact of self-help content and the future of media and entertainment

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Show Notes:

0:00) Intro

(2:00) Did you show signs as a kid

(3:10) Why didn’t you become a professional poker player?

(5:15) How The Game changed Mark’s life

(12:45) Mark’s realization about picking up women

(21:45) Thoughts on Andrew Tate

(25:30) How Mark learned to write

(33:20) Mark’s Youtube strategy

(45:30) Youtube learnings

(54:20) Why Mark’s bullish on Youtube

(57:20) Mark’s process for writing viral titles

(1:03:20) Is blogging dead?

(1:05:00) What’s Will Smith like?

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Links:

• Mark’s Youtube Channel - https://www.youtube.com/@iammarkmanson

• The Consequences of Caring - https://tinyurl.com/38us6hjr

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Past guests on My First Million include Rob Dyrdek, Hasan Minhaj, Balaji Srinivasan, Jake Paul, Dr. Andrew Huberman, Gary Vee, Lance Armstrong, Sophia Amoruso, Ariel Helwani, Ramit Sethi, Stanley Druckenmiller, Peter Diamandis, Dharmesh Shah, Brian Halligan, Marc Lore, Jason Calacanis, Andrew Wilkinson, Julian Shapiro, Kat Cole, Codie Sanchez, Nader Al-Naji, Steph Smith, Trung Phan, Nick Huber, Anthony Pompliano, Ben Askren, Ramon Van Meer, Brianne Kimmel, Andrew Gazdecki, Scott Belsky, Moiz Ali, Dan Held, Elaine Zelby, Michael Saylor, Ryan Begelman, Jack Butcher, Reed Duchscher, Tai Lopez, Harley Finkelstein, Alexa von Tobel, Noah Kagan, Nick Bare, Greg Isenberg, James Altucher, Randy Hetrick and more.

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