Front Row Dads with Jon Vroman

A 30-Min Weekly Ritual That Reconnects You + Your Wife

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Jan 14, 2026
David Aceves, a dedicated husband and father, shares a powerful relationship strategy to reconnect with your partner during tough times. He emphasizes a weekly 30-minute ritual — free from distractions like phones — where couples ask each other how they're really feeling and what they're struggling with. David explains the importance of presence over problem-solving and how simple questions can promote deeper understanding. This ritual not only nurtures connection but also reinforces teamwork during life's challenges.
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ANECDOTE

Facing A Down Syndrome Diagnosis Together

  • David shares that his wife received a Down syndrome diagnosis during pregnancy and they now navigate a heavy season with multiple young children.
  • He emphasizes choosing how to face the challenge and leaning into being a team with his wife.
ADVICE

Lead With Presence Not Solutions

  • When there's no solution, stop trying to fix and ask, "What do you need right now?" and offer simple options like a hug.
  • Stay in the moment and hold presence rather than shutting down or distracting yourself.
INSIGHT

Staying A Team During Hard Seasons

  • Not turning away from each other prevents "friendly fire" and keeps you on the same team during hard seasons.
  • Choosing to turn towards each other preserves the relationship even when circumstances are heavy.
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