Why Won't You Date Me? with Nicole Byer

Send Me Your Hole Pics (w/ Angeria Paris VanMichaels)

Oct 10, 2025
Angeria Paris VanMichaels, a dynamic drag performer and winner of RuPaul's Drag Race All Stars Season 9, joins to discuss her dating life after years of focus on work. She shares insights on hookup etiquette within the drag community and the emotional highs and lows of dating. Angeria opens up about love languages, the exhaustion of always being the one to text first, and manifesting real love. She also touches on the humor and awkwardness of dating apps, while advocating for enjoying singlehood and self-discovery.
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ANECDOTE

Candid Preferences About Nudes

  • Angeria openly describes receiving nudes and preferring "hole pics," saying she's an "ass girl."
  • She frames nudes as fine but clarifies strong sexual preference candidly.
ANECDOTE

Drag Race Success Frames The Conversation

  • Nicole introduces Angeria as a Drag Race breakout who later won All Stars 9.
  • This establishes Angeria's credibility and public recognition in drag.
ADVICE

Ask Politely And Keep Dick Pics Respectful

  • Only send tasteful dick pics and avoid unsolicited extreme images that might upset the recipient.
  • Nicole advises phrasing requests politely to avoid sounding desperate.
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