Money For Couples with Ramit Sethi

188. “She makes 2x but wants me to treat her” Nate and Serena return

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Dec 24, 2024
In a raw and relatable follow-up, Nate and Serena reflect on their financial journey as a couple. They tackle the emotional intricacies of differing income levels and the resulting expectations about spending. The discussion dives into the effects of debt, the importance of open communication, and the evolving dynamics of their relationship. Their candid exploration of generosity and financial planning makes it clear that navigating love and money requires both honesty and understanding.
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ANECDOTE

The $3,000 Trip

  • Serena fronted $3,000 for Nate's share of a trip to see her family.
  • She feels stressed by his lack of a repayment plan, causing weekly arguments.
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Unclear Reasoning

  • Ramit observes that Serena's reasoning for not moving forward financially is unclear.
  • She claims they can't move ahead, yet they're already doing the activities she mentions.
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Wanting to be Treated

  • Serena wishes Nate could treat her more, stemming from her past financial struggles.
  • She now wants to enjoy going out without worrying about splitting costs.
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