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Something You Should Know

Why We Are Obsessed With Butts & The Best and Worst Way to Apologize - SYSK Choice

Jan 18, 2025
Heather Radke, author of "Butts: A Backstory," delves into our cultural obsession with butt aesthetics, exploring shifting beauty standards and personal experiences. Marjorie Ingall, co-author of "Sorry, Sorry, Sorry: The Case for Good Apologies," discusses the anatomy of effective apologies, highlighting common pitfalls and how sincere communication can mend relationships. Together, they navigate societal pressures on body image and the psychological intricacies of saying sorry.
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Quick takeaways

  • Lowering your voice pitch can project authority and calmness, especially in stressful social situations where anxiety may raise pitch levels.
  • A sincere apology requires clear acknowledgment of wrongdoing and genuine remorse, essential for mending relationships and promoting accountability.

Deep dives

The Power of Voice Pitch

Lowering the pitch of your voice can enhance your perceived authority and prestige in various social contexts. Research indicates that individuals are often perceived as more admirable and dominant when they speak in lower tones. This is particularly prominent among men who intentionally lower their voices to assert dominance. Conversely, when faced with stress or high-status individuals, people tend to unconsciously raise their pitch, making voice control an important communication tool.

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