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10% Happier with Dan Harris

Dan Savage On: How to Handle Disappointment in Your Relationships, How to Get Better at Sex, and Why a 'Couple' is an Illusion

Jan 29, 2024
Dan Savage, renowned author and sex advice columnist, brings his frank insights to the discussion. He tackles how to handle disappointment and jealousy in relationships, emphasizing the importance of communication. Savage reveals why couples often lose their spark and offers tips to regain intimacy, particularly in the age of dating apps. He challenges the conventional notion of a 'couple' being an illusion and highlights the communication differences between gay and straight relationships, advocating for openness and negotiation in love.
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  • The importance of realistic expectations and adaptation in long-term monogamous relationships
  • The vital role of open and honest communication in exploring desires and preferences in sexual relationships

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The Myth of Monogamy

The speaker challenges the idea of monogamy as the default setting and emphasizes the importance of realistic expectations in monogamous relationships. He highlights the value of disappointment and the ability to adapt and grow in a long-term relationship.

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