10% Happier with Dan Harris Dan Savage On: How to Handle Disappointment in Your Relationships, How to Get Better at Sex, and Why a 'Couple' is an Illusion
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Jan 29, 2024 
Dan Savage, renowned author and sex advice columnist, brings his frank insights to the discussion. He tackles how to handle disappointment and jealousy in relationships, emphasizing the importance of communication. Savage reveals why couples often lose their spark and offers tips to regain intimacy, particularly in the age of dating apps. He challenges the conventional notion of a 'couple' being an illusion and highlights the communication differences between gay and straight relationships, advocating for openness and negotiation in love.
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Savage's Focus on Sex and Relationships
- Dan Savage's focus on sex and relationships stems from his experience as a gay man.
- Being different from societal expectations led him to contemplate sex's role in his life.
Accidental Career
- Dan Savage stumbled into his career accidentally after suggesting an advice column for a new Seattle newspaper.
- His initial intention was to write it satirically for a short time, but it evolved into a genuine advice column.
Gay People and Sex Expertise
- Gay people often have a deeper understanding of sex due to its role in their identity.
- Recreational sex, the kind most straight people have, is the only type gay people have, fostering expertise.