28: Red + Green flags in dating and going slow vs ambivalence in dating!
Jul 28, 2023
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Dating coach and podcast host Sabrina discusses red and green flags in dating, the difference between going slow and ambivalence, recognizing toxic behaviors, setting boundaries, signs of narcissism and codependency, and healthy conflict resolution in relationships.
Recognize red flags in dating to identify potential issues and deal breakers.
Look for green flags in a partner to indicate positive signs for a healthy relationship.
Deep dives
Understanding Red Flags in Dating
Red flags in dating are behaviors that indicate potential problems or incompatibility in a relationship. Examples include disrespectful behavior, controlling behavior, constant criticism, inconsistency, and isolation from friends and family. Recognizing red flags helps differentiate between compatibility issues and deal breakers.
Identifying Green Flags for Healthy Relationships
Green flags indicate positive signs in a potential partner that show a healthy and secure relationship. These include respectful communication, consistency, honesty, transparency, supportiveness, and encouraging behavior. Green flags offer cues to continue exploring the relationship in a positive manner.
Differentiating Between Going Slow and Ambivalence
Going slow in a relationship involves intentional pacing to ensure a genuine connection, clear communication, and emotional investment while respecting boundaries and comfort levels. On the other hand, ambivalence reflects mixed feelings, conflicting emotions, and uncertainty, resulting in inconsistent behavior and lack of clarity or commitment.
Recognizing Deal Breakers and Non-Negotiables
Deal breakers are behaviors or values that go against core beliefs, boundaries, or requirements in a relationship and cannot be overlooked. Non-negotiables are set by individuals and vary in severity, impacting overall well-being and aligning with fundamental values. Differentiating between red flags, deal breakers, and non-negotiables is crucial in maintaining healthy relationships.
On this weeks episode of The Sabrina Zohar Show, Sabrina goes over what are red and green flags and the difference between someone going slow and ambivalence in dating.
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