The traditional impulse to fix mental illness can have surprising consequences and hinder recovery, whereas a model based on acceptance and community integration promotes healing and reduces stigma.
Negative expressions from family members towards individuals with mental illness can hinder their recovery, while acceptance from strangers who do not have preconceived notions or a desire to fix can lead to better mental health outcomes.
Deep dives
The Healing Power of Acceptance: Lessons from a Belgian Town
Ellen Baxter, inspired by a town in Belgium called Hale, sought to bring a family foster care model to the US for mental health care. The model revolves around acceptance rather than trying to fix individuals. In Hale, families welcomed strangers with mental illness into their homes and allowed them to stay for extended periods of time, resulting in a sense of belonging and community. These individuals were not labeled or diagnosed, contributing to the overall acceptance and care they received. However, efforts to replicate this model in the US have been challenging due to societal attitudes towards mental illness and the American belief in finding cures.
Overcoming Stigma and Creating Healing Communities
Broadway Housing Communities in New York City has created buildings where both individuals with severe mental illness and mentally healthy individuals live together. This housing model promotes a sense of community and reduces stigma by allowing individuals to live alongside each other. The proximity and interaction between individuals with and without mental illness create a supportive environment and facilitate healing. This approach challenges the traditional belief that individuals with mental illness need to be fixed or cured. Instead, it focuses on acceptance and community integration.
The Impact of Negative Expressions on Mental Health
Research shows that negative expressions, such as criticism, hostility, and emotional overinvolvement, from family members can have detrimental effects on mental health and lead to relapses. The Law of Expressed Emotion suggests that when families express these negative emotions towards a loved one with mental illness, it can hinder their recovery and well-being. Creating a supportive, accepting environment and avoiding attempts to fix the person can have a positive impact on their mental health.
The Healing Power of Strangers' Acceptance
Acceptance from strangers can sometimes be more healing than acceptance from family members. Strangers who do not have preconceived notions or a desire to fix individuals provide an atmosphere of acceptance and support. The experience of being accepted can lead to better mental health outcomes and a sense of belonging. Acceptance, rather than a focus on fixing or curing, allows individuals to embrace their true selves and heal on their own terms.
In this episode we find that the solution can be the problem. The hour begins with a charming couple from Utah who stumble across a clever fix to their clogged drain problem one day while they are showering together. For them, the impulse to fix the problem leads to a happy adventure into the world of patenting and manufacturing a new product. From there, the hour takes a turn to explore how this very same impulse to fix a problem — the impulse that has led the human species to invent telephones and bicycles and rocket ships — has surprising consequences when it comes to the problem of mental illness.