PsycHacks Episode 317: Who has more power in a relationship?
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Apr 24, 2023 Explore the intricate power dynamics of relationships, where imbalances often go unnoticed. Discover how ultimatums can serve as tools of influence, affecting commitment and decision-making. The discussion also reveals how attractiveness and competence play roles in shaping relationship options. Delve into real-world examples that highlight these themes and learn three insightful methods to identify who holds more power in your connections.
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Who Holds More Power
- Power is the ability to get others to act in service of your goals.
- The person who moves less usually has more power in a relationship.
Commitment Reveals Power
- Power imbalance shows through commitment levels; the less committed person has more power.
- Ultimatums reveal who is less committed and usually come from the more powerful party.
Marriage Proposals as Ultimatums
- Logan Urie said behind every marriage proposal is an ultimatum.
- Ultimatums force compliance and reveal who holds more power in the relationship.
