The Jefferson Fisher Podcast The Best Communication Advice of 2025
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Dec 30, 2025 Discover the three transformative communication tools that reshaped conversations in 2025. Learn how asking 'Did you mean...' can dismantle misunderstandings and enhance clarity. Experience the power of a pause through breathing techniques to regain calm in tense moments. Finally, embrace the art of saying less with concise responses, boosting your credibility. These strategies aim to redefine your interactions as you head into the new year!
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Ask Questions Of Intent
- When someone says something hurtful, ask a question of intent (e.g., "Did you mean for that to hurt me?").
- This reflection pauses your reaction and forces the speaker to clarify or own their words.
Shifting The Decision Back To The Speaker
- Asking about intent moves the decision back to the speaker and avoids giving them the emotional reaction they seek.
- When they double down, you can simply thank them and let them live with their words.
Real Text Example With His Wife
- Jefferson shares how he and his wife use intent questions in texts to avoid misreading tone.
- Simple queries often reveal context like being with kids or in a drive-through.