Respectful Parenting: Janet Lansbury Unruffled

How to Stop the Screaming

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Apr 8, 2025
The podcast dives into the common challenge of childhood screaming, especially when it becomes a default reaction. A parent shares her struggle with her daughter’s excessive screaming, which is tied to her own upbringing. Emotional responses from both child and parent are explored, providing insights on staying calm. Practical strategies are offered to help manage these behaviors effectively, emphasizing the importance of understanding the underlying triggers. It's a relatable journey into navigating the ups and downs of parenting.
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ADVICE

Managing Screaming Triggers

  • Take space when triggered by your child's screaming, but do it in a way that creates safety.
  • Let your child compose themselves and avoid saying too much while they're in that state.
INSIGHT

Teaching Through Actions

  • Children learn that screaming is ineffective not through words, but through our actions.
  • By not reacting or giving in, we teach them that screaming doesn't achieve their goals.
ADVICE

Responding to Screaming

  • Avoid asking a screaming child to "try again" or communicate differently.
  • Recognize they're overwhelmed and lack control, not intentionally misbehaving.
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