In this podcast, Jen sits down with Angel Hirsch, an EMDRIA approved consultant and therapist from Austin Texas. They discuss the journey of becoming an EMDR consultant, lessons learned from unintentional retraumatization, imposter syndrome, dynamics of client-therapist and consultant relationships, trusting the therapeutic process, and finding the right consultant.
Finding a consultant who resonates with you and creates a safe and open space is crucial in your journey as an EMDR therapist.
Trusting the natural process of EMDR and the wisdom within each client's system is key.
Deep dives
The Importance of Finding the Right EMDR Consultant
Finding a consultant who resonates with you and creates a safe and open space is crucial in your journey as an EMDR therapist. It is important to have a consultant who encourages growth, supports your vulnerability, and fosters curiosity. This relationship should be collaborative and provide room for questioning and challenging thoughts. If you feel fear, shame, or discomfort in your consultation sessions, it may be time to explore other options and find a consultant who is the right fit for you.
Trusting the Process and Embodying EMDR
Trusting the natural process of EMDR and the wisdom within each client's system is key. It's essential to understand that the process is not about reaching zero disturbance or adhering strictly to the prescribed protocols. Instead, it's crucial to ask why something is staying stuck and make meaning of that. Being able to sit in the discomfort of not knowing and embracing the intensity of the therapy journey helps foster trust and meaningful integration and healing.
The Power of Reflective Consultation
Consider incorporating reflective consultation into your sessions, focusing on self-reflection rather than just case reflection. Create a safe space to explore what comes up in your own nervous system, including fears, patterns, and trends. Reflective consultation can provide valuable insights into your own growth and help you become a more grounded and intuitive therapist.
The Freedom to Change Consultants
Remember that becoming a consultant is not the only path for professional growth. There are many talented therapists who are not consultants but possess extensive knowledge and experience. If you feel stagnant or unsatisfied, it's okay to consider changing consultants. Trust your instincts and find a consultant who creates safety, supports vulnerability, and encourages growth. Consultant-client relationships can evolve, and it's important to find what works best for your own journey.
Listen in to hear Jen sit down with Angel Hirsch, an EMDRIA approved consultant and therapist from Austin Texas and a close friend to Beyond. For information on our consultant in training program and all EMDR related consultation offerings, head to our website at connectbeyondhealing.com and click on the "For Therapists" tab.