Soul Gum We're Drowning in Choices and It's Ruining Our Lives: The Paradox of Choice
We live in an age of seemingly infinite options. The internet has thousands of pages of search results for that thing you need to buy. Endless entertainment awaits on streaming platforms and social media. Dating apps offer a never-ending scroll of potential partners. So why does it feel impossible to find what we need? Why can’t you pick a movie to watch? Why is it harder than ever to find someone to love?
This episodes discusses the paradox of choice: the idea that more choices often make us less happy. Is more less when it comes to choices? If so, how can we live happily in an age of infinite options? Let's talk about it.
EPISODE OUTLINE:
00:00 Intro
01:51 What is the paradox of choice?
02:37 Stanford jam study
06:12 Dating apps
07:10 Decision paralysis
08:53 Opportunity costs
09:13 Sylvia Plath's fig tree allegory
12:08 Expectation inflation
15:05 So what do we do about it?
15:57 Break
21:01 Kierkegaard's leap of faith
22:10 The Midnight Library by Matt Haig
24:17 Nietzsche's amor fati
27:49 Satisficing
30:00 The next right thing
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