The Spiritual Perspective From the Archive: Why You Should Get Back Together with Your Ex
Aug 23, 2025
Ever thought about reuniting with an ex? The conversation digs into the complexities of revisiting former relationships. It challenges the conventional wisdom of just moving on, suggesting that there can be valuable lessons to learn from the past. Self-reflection and spiritual growth take center stage, emphasizing that reconnecting could lead to personal development. Whether it’s romance or an old career, embracing history might be a crucial part of your journey.
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Common Breakup Mantras
- Light Watkins notes the common chorus of advice: 'Never, ever get back together with an ex' and 'move on.'
- He frames this as familiar, initially sensible guidance many of us hear from friends and family.
Why 'Never Go Back' Is Not Objective
- Social advice to 'never go back' often reflects other people's pride, fear, or unresolved wounds rather than objective truth.
- Friends may push you to stay single because your choices would highlight their own regrets or mistakes.
Relationships As Growth Opportunities
- From a spiritual perspective, relationships primarily serve as catalysts for personal growth rather than just sources of happiness.
- Growth sometimes requires humility and admitting you might have been wrong in the relationship.