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2530: Self-Talk Isn’t Just a Fluffy Concept AND 5 Ways to Respond When You’re Upset by Dr. Allison Niebes-Davis

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Mar 24, 2025
Self-talk can significantly affect your mental and emotional health. It's not just fluffy affirmations; it's about transforming the conversation happening in your mind. Dr. Allison Niebes-Davis shares five practical strategies to stay calm and navigate stress when emotions run high. Learn the importance of balanced self-talk and how it shapes resilience. Discover how being mindful of your internal dialogue can empower you to effectively respond to life's challenges.
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INSIGHT

Self-Talk's True Purpose

  • Self-talk is about changing your inner dialogue, not just positive affirmations.
  • It helps you respond to automatic negative thoughts with more balanced ones.
ADVICE

Counter Negative Thoughts

  • Challenge negative self-talk with realistic and constructive counter-arguments.
  • For example, reframe "It's too hard" to "This is tough, and I can do this."
ADVICE

Take Timeouts

  • Take short breaks during stressful situations to avoid overreacting.
  • Use these breaks to calm down and think clearly, not to plan your retaliation.
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