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How Aunty Rhonda learnt to cry

Nov 20, 2025
Aunty Rhonda Collard-Spratt, a Yamatji-Noongar elder and Stolen Generations survivor, shares her profound journey from mission life to reconnecting with her roots. She reflects on childhood escapes into the bush for solace and the impact of systemic racism. Rhonda recounts her transformative bond with music and how it healed her, alongside her struggles with emotional detachment from family. Delving into her artistic endeavors, she discusses her children's book series that honors her culture, while advocating for understanding and acceptance in modern Australia.
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ANECDOTE

Childhood On The Carnarvon Mission

  • Aunty Rhonda describes life on the Carnarvon mission with dormitories, bells and strict chores that replaced family life.
  • She escaped into the bush to hug gum trees and listen to cicadas as her healing place away from the mission's control.
ANECDOTE

Letters That Never Arrived

  • A Christmas card from her mother contained an address and a money instruction that Rhonda memorised and used to keep writing home weekly.
  • The missionaries never sent replies and likely discarded her letters, a loss that prevented reunification.
INSIGHT

Words Shape A Child's Identity

  • Missionaries taught children to view Aboriginal language and culture as 'rubbish,' shaping self-worth during formative years.
  • Aunty Rhonda warns adults must watch words and actions because children internalise them forever.
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