Gay Men Going Deeper

The Reparenting Process

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May 22, 2025
This discussion delves into how childhood experiences shape adult relationships and emotional well-being. It reflects on our unmet needs and the coping strategies we developed, highlighting the journey towards self-acceptance. Listeners will discover the power of reparenting as a tool for healing, with personal stories showcasing the importance of self-compassion and emotional support. The conversation emphasizes transforming childhood wounds into strengths and how nurturing the inner child can lead to personal growth and meaningful connections.
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INSIGHT

Reparenting Is Learning To Parent Yourself

  • Reparenting means learning to meet unmet childhood needs by protecting and compassionately parenting your inner child.
  • Developing self-protection and self-compassion replaces missing parental functions and reshapes adult behavior.
ADVICE

Practice Concrete Reparenting Habits

  • Practice concrete reparenting acts: speak kindly to yourself, keep promises, set boundaries, and celebrate wins.
  • Use daily self-care, emotional regulation, and playful activities to rebuild trust with your inner child.
INSIGHT

Coping Styles Reveal Missing Skills

  • People-pleasing often reflects an underdeveloped self-protection (fight) response and shows as fawning.
  • A harsh inner critic typically signals underdeveloped self-compassion and external judgment.
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