The Dr. John Delony Show

My Twin Was Arrested and Pretended to Be Me

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Sep 24, 2025
Wren, a caller from Missouri, shares a gripping story about his twin who engaged in identity theft and substance abuse. He seeks guidance on establishing healthy family boundaries and navigating the fallout from his twin's actions. John Delony offers insightful advice on handling legal ramifications, the importance of grieving lost sibling relationships, and emphasizing personal safety. The conversation also touches on prioritizing family dynamics, combating the need for parental approval, and fostering honest communication in relationships.
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ANECDOTE

Twin Identity Theft And Fallout

  • Wren's twin repeatedly used his name and Social Security number, causing arrests and job rejections.
  • He now faces federal action while Wren works to clear his record and protect his family.
ADVICE

Protect Identity And Get Legal Help

  • Do freeze your credit and pursue a new Social Security number if someone is using yours.
  • Do hire an attorney and proactively call investigators daily until records are cleared.
ADVICE

Stop Rescuing; Force Consequences

  • Avoid bailing your brother out financially or rescuing him from consequences.
  • Stop direct money transfers and switch to constrained support like paying professionals or grocery deliveries to controlled addresses.
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